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Initiating a 'casual relationship'/ sexy friends... watch

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    Hello,
    i am a single girl, im 21, i love being single- i love the freedom and i've been in relationships before, i enjoy them but at the moment in terms of other commitments with uni/work/internships/travel i want to be single.
    I have had one night stands before, but dont really like 'sleeping around' because of the risks it poses.
    I had a 'one night stand' with a guy the other night, we got on really well- there was a bit of chemistry there, he was nice and interesting and seemed to be a bit of a free spirit too.

    Would it be completely mental of me to text him initiating a 'casual relationship' being totally honest saying something along the lines of:

    i think your interesting. you are really good in bed. id like to hook up with you again some time, no strings attached.

    boys- would this scare you off? is this too forward?
    girls- am i being completely insane here? lol

    i know alot of people will think im massive whore or whatever, but quite the opposite i am the down to earth 'girl you take home to the parents' type, just in between relationships and wanting some sex and companionship without the massive emotional baggage and commitments of a serious relationship.

    can this work?

    thanks
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    I doubt that would scare him off, probably the opposite lol. Just make sure that you don't want anything other than sex from the guy though- could get messy otherwise.
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    Could be fun..
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hello,
    i am a single girl, im 21, i love being single- i love the freedom and i've been in relationships before, i enjoy them but at the moment in terms of other commitments with uni/work/internships/travel i want to be single.
    I have had one night stands before, but dont really like 'sleeping around' because of the risks it poses.
    I had a 'one night stand' with a guy the other night, we got on really well- there was a bit of chemistry there, he was nice and interesting and seemed to be a bit of a free spirit too.

    Would it be completely mental of me to text him initiating a 'casual relationship' being totally honest saying something along the lines of:

    i think your interesting. you are really good in bed. id like to hook up with you again some time, no strings attached.

    boys- would this scare you off? is this too forward?
    girls- am i being completely insane here? lol

    i know alot of people will think im massive whore or whatever, but quite the opposite i am the down to earth 'girl you take home to the parents' type, just in between relationships and wanting some sex and companionship without the massive emotional baggage and commitments of a serious relationship.

    can this work?

    thanks
    You would MAKE HIS DAY, EVEN HIS WHOLE YEAR!
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    I'll have a casual relationship with you...?
 
 
 
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