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    I don't think a girl has ever said to me that she thinks I'm hot, whilst gay guys seem quite forwardly interested (including attractive ones who presumably have a reasonable amount of options). Why do only gay guys think I'm good looking? Do gay guys have much lower standards or something?
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    Do you wear "camp" things? Maybe you give off a gay vibe?
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    I guess I do sometimes. Although looking around British people as a whole and all of these guys with tight trousers and plunging necklines, I'm not sure what I wear is camper than standard.

    I don't think it's what I wear, but I think I do somehow give off a "gay vibe", however you do that. I'm not sure what would make me give off this sort of vibe, though.
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    gay guys have nothing to fear when they call you hot
    girls are probably shy or something
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    gay guys have nothing to fear when they call you hot
    girls are probably shy or something
    What makes you say they have nothing to fear? Surely rejection is the only thing to "fear" (if that's the right word) for either sex - and so far I've never said "yes" to a gay man!
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    Same problem here. I've had several guys come onto me in really direct ways. By literally asking me out for dinner and asking if I was gay. It's often older men too (30-50, I'm 20). It's extremely awkward.

    Thing is, I'm completely straight. And it's frustrating because I've never had a girlfriend or even had sex. I've had a few dates and that's it. I'm not a pretty boy at all. I'm 6ft1 have a square jaw and broad shoulders.

    FML.
 
 
 
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