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What won't he ask me out? watch

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    heres the situation, I meet a guy in week 1/2 of uni, we spoke/hung out quite a bit
    during first term, I was trying to be keep it friendly but I think it was sort
    of obvious I liked him. And on his birthday, I got him a book signed for him
    by his favourite author, which I think with hindsight was quite a meaningful
    gesture considering I'd only known him for seven/eight weeks by that point
    and people dont usually bother with presents at university.

    In second term, he developed quite a strong friend clique
    so we didnt speak as much, and our encounters were reduced to mere
    chance bump into's and we didnt really text as much. Our male mutual
    friend also told me that early second term, while discussing women with
    my crush, he mentioned me and my crush said I was quite cute.
    So.....why has absolutely nothing happened? has he lost interest?
    Is he just not that into me? Im all hang up over him and I just feel like
    he does not care of my existence....
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    You must be socially retarded to not realise he's not that into you.
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    Maybe he doesn't actually fancy you?

    He just thinks you a re cute, it doesn't mean he wants to go out with you.
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    (Original post by goddogit)
    because you type like you're writing a poem
    This.

    OP, poems are last century. It's all blogs these days.
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    Why haven't YOU asked him out?
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    (Original post by Flan!)
    Why haven't YOU asked him out?
    That madam is d golden answer and you get a thumbs up from me
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    (Original post by Flan!)
    Why haven't YOU asked him out?
    Seconded. If you want something to happen, make it happen. Seems like you don't have anything to lose.
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    It doesn't honestly sound like he showed that much interest other than in a friendship way, it's you who kind of jumped on him and decided you liked each other. The present thing also was a bit heavy. If you really want something to happen here, you need to approach him and ask him out, since clearly none of us on here will be able to see the full picture.
 
 
 
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