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    Okay so firstly I'm gay..
    Anyway, there's this guy who I think has been flirting with me on for a while now. He works in a store I'm not usually in but every time I am he smiles at me constantly, always says "Hi there/See you later" (which he doesn't do to other customers) and always makes eye contact.

    However, I don't know if he's gay or he's just friendly...

    I really want to ask for his number but I've never done that before. What should I do?! My friend said I should just start talking to him, but what the heck am I supposed to say: "Hey, are you gay? Can I have your number?" Lol but seriously, what should I say/do/not do?!


    Thanks for the help in advance!
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    Just say:

    "Hey, are you gay? Can I have your number?"
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    Or just say:
    "Can I have your number?"

    Maybe ask if he's gay afterwards, but I don't think you should ask him that first...
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    (Original post by iainthegreat)
    Just say:

    "Hey, are you gay? Can I have your number?"
    This
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    Steal his phone.
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    You could buy something from the shop and use the chance to talk to him for a bit. Then either ask for his number or give him a bit of paper or something with your number on. You can say it was nice talking to him and to give you a call sometime if he wants to go for a drnk and talk some more.
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    Why not test to see if he's gay instead of asking.

    For instance, buy him a sausage roll. If he eats it normally, he's straight. If he deep throats it, he's gay.
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    Go to him 'fancy a bum'?
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    (Original post by iainthegreat)
    Just say:

    "Hey, are you gay? Can I have your number?"

    (Original post by hxecute)
    Or just say:
    "Can I have your number?"

    Maybe ask if he's gay afterwards, but I don't think you should ask him that first...
    Is this not a bit too forward though? Shouldn't I make conversation whit him first?
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    Say, "don't you just hate ****".

    If he says... "Errr.... yeah, damn..... ******s"

    You're in.
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    Just go in, maybe buy something, or just go and talk to him, you dont need an excuse to. Talk a bit, make conversation then yea either ask for his number or give him yours.
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    Sometimes playing the dating game is like playing a slot machine. It's attractive but always uncertain. Of course, there's the potential of hitting the jackpot (in your case the guy also being gay), but unless you're extremely lucky you have to play more than a few coins to hit big (chatting up various guys). If approaching a guy doesn't work the first time, then try, try again. Eventually it will pay off.

    or just go into the shop and buy **** loads of will & grace, sex & the city dvds? he'll get the hint...probably
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    (Original post by unicornsoncrack)
    Sometimes playing the dating game is like playing a slot machine. It's attractive but always uncertain. Of course, there's the potential of hitting the jackpot (in your case the guy also being gay), but unless you're extremely lucky you have to play more than a few coins to hit big (chatting up various guys). If approaching a guy doesn't work the first time, then try, try again. Eventually it will pay off.

    or just go into the shop and buy **** loads of will & grace, sex & the city dvds? he'll get the hint...probably
    Two problems:
    1. I don't know what I should say to start the conversation/chatting up. What do you think?
    2. He works in the girls section of a clothes shop. Lol!

    Thanks for your help!
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    Do you not have gaydar? Use that. I'm gay too so don't try telling me it doesn't exist. If you think he's queer he probably is.
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    (Original post by maton_91)
    Go to him 'fancy a bum'?
    hahaha I think I just might.. lol!
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    Seeing as he works in the girl's section maybe you could ask him for advice on something you're buying for your 'sister' or some other girl that is obviously not a partner? Then go from there!
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    Poofs are gay
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    (Original post by bananalala)
    Seeing as he works in the girl's section maybe you could ask him for advice on something you're buying for your 'sister' or some other girl that is obviously not a partner? Then go from there!
    This. And then ask him for a pint/appletini/coffee/sex as thanks for his help?
 
 
 
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