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    (Original post by humble_bumble)
    Thanks.

    Also I shall add, Boys are a hassle too and cannot be trusted. Not all, a majority of them. But that doesn't make a girl want to be a hoe or **** or whatever other terms are.

    Each to their own I guess
    Yeah I admit some of what I said is absolute crap as it could be applied to any one , however I have noticed girls won't dump their boyfriend until they find a replacement . They will stay with anyone until they find someone else. This is something that cannot be denied. My own personal opinion , I know this might come across badly , but I feel modern women who are into celebrities , sex and city and gossip and that stuff aren't capable to have the morals to not cheat. They might not cheat physically but they will emotionally. I have seen plenty of girls flirt with me who boyfriends and are willing to dump their boyfriends for me. So you can't blame me for my view of screwing flaky relationships and just enjoy screwing girls . If you have an answer , come back
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    (Original post by Mad Cat Lady)
    You got a point, gentlemen are soooo much more attractive than players...

    Become a player if all you want is a slut who will shag anything long and hard, and if you want a real woman then don't. Your call.
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    (Original post by MathematicsKiller)
    No. What is this about becoming a "player"?
    A young lad must be a gentleman.
    don't let him lie to you, become a player!
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    Yeah OP I think you are completely forgetting that a considerable amount of men cheat and for every player you get a girl who gets alienated and loses belief and trust in men and become emotionally damaged. It's why a lot of women are standdoffish of guys in socialised enviroments like bars. Some of us just think, " Great. Here comes a guy who wants to **** me for all I have and then **** off." And then us women don't want to talk to any guys that approach and will give the rude brush-off as it's what we're expecting. Men on the hunt for sex. I've been through that myself, but I'm lucky to have met someone decent who hopefully won't **** me about. It's a toxic circle. Behave properly. Do it for your sake and if not the rest of your fellow men. It's not good to end up with someone who's been emotionally damaged (imagine a potential girlfriend in the future after you've finished messing around and want to settle down) and it wasn't even your fault.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah I admit some of what I said is absolute crap as it could be applied to any one , however I have noticed girls won't dump their boyfriend until they find a replacement . They will stay with anyone until they find someone else. This is something that cannot be denied. My own personal opinion , I know this might come across badly , but I feel modern women who are into celebrities , sex and city and gossip and that stuff aren't capable to have the morals to not cheat. They might not cheat physically but they will emotionally. I have seen plenty of girls flirt with me who boyfriends and are willing to dump their boyfriends for me. So you can't blame me for my view of screwing flaky relationships and just enjoy screwing girls . If you have an answer , come back
    I have noticed that the sky is purple. This cannot be denied. See that? I just gave a totally dumb opinion that isn't true in the slightest but I put that amazing clause after it, so I must be right! Thanks for showing me the light 19 year old boy.
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    I'm guessing the girls you attract don't have much class..
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    (Original post by MathematicsKiller)
    No. What is this about becoming a "player"?
    A young lad must be a gentleman.
    But "lad" and "gentleman" are mutually exclusive
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    (Original post by Sorani)
    I have noticed that the sky is purple. This cannot be denied. See that? I just gave a totally dumb opinion that isn't true in the slightest but I put that amazing clause after it, so I must be right! Thanks for showing me the light 19 year old boy.
    If your going to comment at least say something of some use , instead of being a prat by trying to be witty and degrade what I have just written .
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    (Original post by tehforum)
    I just a word
    I accidentally the whole internet
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    (Original post by Eveiebaby)
    Yeah OP I think you are completely forgetting that a considerable amount of men cheat and for every player you get a girl who gets alienated and loses belief and trust in men and become emotionally damaged. It's why a lot of women are standdoffish of guys in socialised enviroments like bars. Some of us just think, " Great. Here comes a guy who wants to **** me for all I have and then **** off." And then us women don't want to talk to any guys that approach and will give the rude brush-off as it's what we're expecting. Men on the hunt for sex. I've been through that myself, but I'm lucky to have met someone decent who hopefully won't **** me about. It's a toxic circle. Behave properly. Do it for your sake and if not the rest of your fellow men. It's not good to end up with someone who's been emotionally damaged (imagine a potential girlfriend in the future after you've finished messing around and want to settle down) and it wasn't even your fault.
    Thanks what you said is right. I shouldn't become the thing I dislike . behaving properly regardless of how others act , is the right way to go and is something what needs no applause . I shouldn't mess with other girls feeling just because of how I was treated , it not right on them and its not right on myself to behave like that. You changed my view , Thanks
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    yeah girls always break guys' hearts innit. :nopity:

    grow a pair.

    if you're asking the internet whether it's best just to pack it in and become a player, you ain't player material.

    now do women a favour and step aside so we can get a clearer view on the good men. ta.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks what you said is right. I shouldn't become the thing I dislike . behaving properly regardless of how others act , is the right way to go and is something what needs no applause . I shouldn't mess with other girls feeling just because of how I was treated , it not right on them and its not right on myself to behave like that. You changed my view , Thanks
    Glad to be of service. I really think this is the way to think. A lot of player men don't think about the long lasting impact of their behaviour. Once they try and find a girl to settle down (or even when they have a girl child themselves) they'll realise what idiots they've been; as the woman they want to settle down with won't trust them because so many prats have messed her around. In the event that you have a female child yourself, you'll be so protective of her as you'll realise that so many young men think with their dicks and don't think about how much their selfish behaviour damages a young woman's psychy.

    There's a lot to be said about why women are so rude to men in clubs and bars and you'll find it's because we find it odious, predictable and offensive to be hunted on as sex prey.

    I wouldnt even mind it if a guy wanted to come up to me and actually have a proper conversation. But as experience goes, they just want a piece of my ass so I don't like to even chance it anymore. Rebuff! Go play someone else and make them feel ****!
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    And God said to Moses: 'Go forth and sow your seeds of life into as many fertile fields as possible, but thou shalt not allow your seeds to wilt under attack from foreign disease.'
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah I admit some of what I said is absolute crap as it could be applied to any one , however I have noticed girls won't dump their boyfriend until they find a replacement . They will stay with anyone until they find someone else. This is something that cannot be denied. My own personal opinion , I know this might come across badly , but I feel modern women who are into celebrities , sex and city and gossip and that stuff aren't capable to have the morals to not cheat. They might not cheat physically but they will emotionally. I have seen plenty of girls flirt with me who boyfriends and are willing to dump their boyfriends for me. So you can't blame me for my view of screwing flaky relationships and just enjoy screwing girls . If you have an answer , come back
    I don't have an answer to what you just wrote mate. But some of it is true. But not all are like that.

    Enjoy anyway
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    I didn't understand a word of the OP.

    Either I'm drunk, or he's spewing crap. The empty bottle of red lable on my desk suggests the former.


    tldr: **** *****es Get Money
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    I have a problem with trust and I don't think I will ever marry a girl even if she's the one. It's a problem I've seen everyday I don't actually understand why men need woman- I don't mean I'm sexist but I do not see any good in me getting a girlfriend/parter. They spend your money, give you problems, cheat/flirt with other guys, worry you, can be a *****. It's not worth the hassle in the grand scheme of things they make you a baby and that's all there's beneficial(and if the relationship falls apart, you won't even get to see the kid) I could just pay some Romanian chick to do that, why risk getting hurt in the end.
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    Basically you're scared of relationships because you think they will end in sorrow, and you just can't take the hurt. You choose to blame women for this.

    You then attempt to disguise your fear as a cool thing by splattering the word player all over it, assuming that you will be able to shag lots of girls when you choose to (note: the guys wanting to do this outnumber the girls willing to participate in my personal experience).

    If you don't want to get hurt, you can just - you know - sleep with girls when you and they both want to and don't get too attached, but doing so in a respectful way that involves mututal understanding of the situation.
    Why use the word "player"? Why do you have to "play" girls?

    Or you know, when you're getting into relationships you could try a little harder to screen out the *****es and go for some decent girl who has a sweet kind personality. I mean there are girls out there who are like that, it's not our fault you don't want to date us for some crap shallow reason is it?

    We don't want to be "played". We are humans with brains and feelings.

    Thanks for reading.
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    Don't tell me what I should consider doing ... that's the kind of thing Jehovah's Witnesses and other lunatics do!
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    You give and get more and better sex if it is with a committed partner. You will learn what they want, they will learn what you need - and you will be able to get it more often (more often than not you probably go back empty-handed from clubs / wherever).

    If you have a partner, providing you are more or less sexually compatible, you could probably end up having sex as often as you like. Plus it comes with all the other wonderful cheesy goodies such as companionship, someone you can count on etc

    So yeah, why become a player if that is going to give you a bad reputation which your perfect girl may be somewhat put off by if she knows beforehand you've been inside every girl in the city?
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    be a playa like me and you can be my wingman brap
    these "standoffish" gyaldem will be eatin out our hands
 
 
 
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