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Confused!!

Hmm, I'm having a bit of trouble sorting out various relationships. Basically, I would be going out with this girl 3 academic years below me, but only 2.5 biological years younger than me, BUT, she has 2 brothers and apparently they're protective over her and would kill me if i did go out with her. what do i do?? and she's kind of saying no just because of that. :frown:

. but she hasn't said that she doesn't like me or not fancy me... so i'm a bit miffed as to what to do...

Reply 1

Fruit-cake

9

yeah i suppose as your 16 and shes 13 it does look a little bad. its a big age difference at your age, i guess youre going to have to accept shes alot younger than you, even if youre a nice guy they probably have ideas of you pushing her into things shes not ready for if you catch my drift...

Reply 2

slk999

OP

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mini_munchkin

yeah i suppose as your 16 and shes 13 it does look a little bad. its a big age difference at your age, i guess youre going to have to accept shes alot younger than you, even if youre a nice guy they probably have ideas of you pushing her into things shes not ready for if you catch my drift...

maybe i should just leave it??

Reply 3

Creepy

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rich_

maybe i should just leave it??

Leave it, to have sex with her would be illegal, and will be for 3 years. She's in a much more immature environment than you are. In 2 years you'll be going out on the piss, and she'll only be 15. Look at the pro's and con's. Just imagine what you got upto in the last 3 years, she still has all that to do.

Reply 4

Jack0

To be honest I think it's pretty disgusting that you would consider a 13 year old - if you even touched her in a sexual way it could go down as sexual abuse and her brothers have the right attitude for a girl of her age.

Reply 5

slk999

OP

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creepy1986

Leave it, to have sex with her would be illegal, and will be for 3 years. She's in a much more immature environment than you are. In 2 years you'll be going out on the piss, and she'll only be 15. Look at the pro's and con's. Just imagine what you got upto in the last 3 years, she still has all that to do.

yeah, i know. issues. i am so stupid though, i always rush into things, and that's not cool. i told her that i just want to take things SLOW and not go into any kind of relationship. she's fine with that. so hopefully we'll just leave it at that. i am just getting very pissed off that rejection seems to be my middle name. :frown:

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Jack0

To be honest I think it's pretty disgusting that you would consider a 13 year old - if you even touched her in a sexual way it could go down as sexual abuse and her brothers have the right attitude for a girl of her age.

i know. oh my god, i do some stupid things sometime. i have left it now and it will not develop- i don't think i could be totally comfortable with having that kind of responsibility.

Reply 6

Poica

14

rich_

yeah, i know. issues. i am so stupid though, i always rush into things, and that's not cool. i told her that i just want to take things SLOW and not go into any kind of relationship. she's fine with that. so hopefully we'll just leave it at that. i am just getting very pissed off that rejection seems to be my middle name. :frown:

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i know. oh my god, i do some stupid things sometime. i have left it now and it will not develop- i don't think i could be totally comfortable with having that kind of responsibility.

If you and she were older it wouldn't be a problem (say 18 and 21) - but as things are it is due to differences in maturity

Reply 7

_Jax_

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They way I see it you have three options.
1. Kill her
2. kill yourself
3. Kill everyone IN THE ENTIRE WORLD!!!

Reply 8

slk999

OP

15

Poica

If you and she were older it wouldn't be a problem (say 18 and 21) - but as things are it is due to differences in maturity

it is. oh dear. i'm in such a mess. i hope it's sorted now. this may sound do desparate, but really, i fancy a girl in my year, but i think she doesn;t like me in that way, and when i herd this girl liked me, i was like, woah, but no. i will just walk away right now.

Reply 9

Dj Nastie

^ what the hell is wrong with you? every post you make seems to be about how you cant get a girlfriend or how you're continually being rejected. I reckon you should start an emo band, at least then you'd be able to cry how about your life is dull AND get paid.

Reply 10

Comp_Genius

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Dj Nastie

^ what the hell is wrong with you? every post you make seems to be about how you cant get a girlfriend or how you're continually being rejected. I reckon you should start an emo band, at least then you'd be able to cry how about your life is dull AND get paid.

What a useful comment.

Reply 11

TrentEnd

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I know if it was me I'd kick your ****ing head in...nothing personal of course

Reply 12

slk999

OP

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darkenergy

What a useful comment.

i agree. lol. i can't help it if i have good and bad times. and yes, all i ever do is seem to moan. but what the hell, he can go away if he doesn't like people moaning.

Reply 13

IzzTheGreat

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rich_

i agree. lol. i can't help it if i have good and bad times. and yes, all i ever do is seem to moan. but what the hell, he can go away if he doesn't like people moaning.

Damn right. Ignore him. As for the girl...13 is pretty young. But only you can decide if it's a good idea.

Reply 14

ExitMusic

9

I think this has been said, but if I was that girl's brother, I would beat the s*** out of a 16 year old going out with her

Reply 15

slk999

OP

15

opiache

Damn right. Ignore him. As for the girl...13 is pretty young. But only you can decide if it's a good idea.

well, i decided it wasn't a good idea. i have put an end to it. we're just friends now. FRIENDS ONLY you hear???!! (not you opiache)

Reply 16

Mr @

1

Flee the country! But a 16yr old going out with a 13 year old is foked up, very...very.

Reply 17

Duck and Cover

15

My friend is 16 (he's in yr 12 - birthday in august tho) and he's going out with a girl who's in yr 9, who is 13 They're both mature people and have a great relationship, if she actually does like you back, dont let anyone stand in your way :wink:

Reply 18

Poica

14

_Jax_

They way I see it you have three options.
1. Kill her
2. kill yourself
3. Kill everyone IN THE ENTIRE WORLD!!!

That's my line bitch

Reply 19

Dj Nastie

TrentEnd

I know if it was me I'd kick your ****ing head in...nothing personal of course

really? because i said that? interesting..........

not too fussed, im 18 hes 16, whats the worst that could happen?

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rich actuall neg repped me, but he did say he found it amusing, so hey, it cant be all bad right?

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