finally spoke to girl of my dreams!

Ok basically theres this girl iv really really liked for ages and she is on my course, iv seen her around lectures/seminars but never had the courage to speak to her. However yesterday i was about to catch the bus back to my hall when something told me i just had to go to the library, so at last min jumped off. Anyway when i went in there she was also there working and it took me 2 hrs to persuade myself to say something to her...but i finally did :biggrin:

and she was sooooooo cute and seem impressed id known her name, but we only chatted for 5 min cos she had to go to dinner and even that was about some c/w cos shes obsessed with work! However she said she'd be in the lib on fri afternoon if we wanted to go over the essay and i was wondering i dont just wana chat about work and dont wana ask her out yet, so what sort of stuff should i mention/ask her??

Reply 1

Trigger

18

awwwwwwww *wishes someone felt like that about me*

hi trigger :redface:

oh its you

alcohol free though :rolleyes:

so back on topic, she will know you like her if you act like a puppy dog around her

suggest you talk about work somewhere typically regarded as a social situation ie restaraunt or something so you can be comfortable around her and try talking about non-work things with greater success.

Reply 5

free4u

OP

But how do i get her in a restuarant, do i just ask her now? I hardly see her as shes staying on a different campus and its only cos iv gone outa my way to sign up to the same seminars she's in i get to see her.

Reply 6

Trigger

18

er, are you a stalker?

Reply 7

~Bambi~

Right.. what you do is meet up with her in the libary drop her 1 compliment mayb about somethings shes wearing or her hair.. then get on with the work try and be as intelligent as you can girls liked that but not too geeky. Then after it suggest you go for a drink or she cums round urs for dinner. Resteraunt wud be a bit o.t.t so i jus say a drink down the pub?

Reply 8

jordanv

1

trigger

er, are you a stalker?

i think he is the non-violent type - the immature puppy :smile:

Reply 9

free4u

OP

trigger

er, are you a stalker?

no why do you say that? lol Just seeing her is the only thing which makes me smile and otherwise i wouldnt ever see her.

Reply 10

~Bambi~

Also remember she may have a boyfriend or she could even be gay. I mean you hardly know her. Just don't rush into anything til you no more about her ok.

Reply 11

Trigger

18

free4u

But how do i get her in a restuarant, do i just ask her now? I hardly see her as shes staying on a different campus and its only cos iv gone outa my way to sign up to the same seminars she's in i get to see her.

thats why

Reply 12

ellewoods

10

Ah this thread has made me smile... :smile:

(a rare thing during assignment / exam season!!)

Just take it slowly ie talk to her about work first and then just work up to other stuff, ie ask her if her housemates are on her course and so if they help each other with work - ease from one topic to the next. Get to know each other and it will become apparent if you actually like each other. :wink:

Be careful though... sometimes if you've worshipped someone from afar, when you actually get up close and get to know them, they just dont / cant live up to your expectations. Dont get your little heart broken xx

Reply 13

La Trampa

18

just ask her if'd she like to get a snack ro something.you don't have to go to a restuarant.a sandwich is fine even and a drink.good luck

Reply 14

Poica

14

I'd say get to know her in a work environment. While working on the project, ask her about herself, get to know her. Then later maybe you'll know her well enough to ask her if she wants to go for a drink. Take it nice and slow.

Reply 15

SunburnedCactus

11

Slow and steady wins the race! Uh...

Reply 16

Icy Ghost

2

get her to sign up for TSR and hopefully she'll see this thread and know how you feel.

:o:

love:

Reply 17

CherryGarcia

1

awww

well done you!!!!!
I think that for the first time you better talk just about school and etc...dont push it :smile:

then next time may be if you want to chnage topic and talk about life or smth start talkingn about yourself and she will answer with the same story abiout herself, so just chose topic your interested in and talk about it =)
but, dont be shy I mean too shy, so you will keep yourself silent all the time and she will feel awkward :biggrin:

and good luck!!!!!

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Icy Ghost

get her to sign up for TSR and hopefully she'll see this thread and know how you feel.

:o:

love:

yeah!!!!!!!! Brilliant idea!!! :biggrin:

Reply 18

free4u

OP

Icy Ghost

get her to sign up for TSR and hopefully she'll see this thread and know how you feel.

:o:

love:

She seems more of an active person than sitting on the net posting, tho she may have seen the american version as shes american! One tutorial she went on and on about how hard the c/w was and every student she spoke to had found it confusing and how everyone would get different answers etc etc and the teacher told her sternly to stop disturbing the class and c/w was for people to do themselves! its like listening to Bush ranting :love:

Even when i spoke to her she went off on one about some figures and i just smiled and nodded as i couldnt concentrate, her face was literally centimetres away from me.

Thanks for your responses, will jus have to see what happens.

Reply 19

Apricot Fairy

16

Talk to her a few times, be casual and friendly, then after a while say, "So would you like to go for a drink some time?"

That's really all there is to it.

finally spoke to girl of my dreams!

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