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what's going on with me

i liked my friend for about 5 months now but lately ive not been obsessed with spending all my free time with him like i used 2 be and the past couple weeks ive been thinkin he likes me too well i still attracted to him but it's like i want something to happen between but i dont care if it doesnt before i was so adamant that i wanted to be his girlfriend....whats goin on with me!!

Reply 1

It happens...not much more to say than that, really.

I'm the same way. I've been very close to a girl for over a year now, and have always had some attraction to her...but recently I've been thinking of her not quite as much as someone I'm attracted to (though some feelings remain), but more as just a very close friend, or even like a sister.

Reply 2

It's like the cliche 'You only want what you can't have.' You wanted him, and now that he seems available, you don't really want him so much.