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How do you deal with a breakup?

How and in what ways do you deal with a breakup?

Reply 1

Troubled 123 ki

Dump them first.

Works for me.

Reply 2

Wineblood

Don't get into relationships in the first place.

Works for me.

Reply 3

Troubled 123 ki

Wineblood

Don't get into relationships in the first place.

Works for me.

Are you in prison or something?

Reply 4

dave

Anonymous

How and in what ways do you deal with a breakup?

Depends whether you you mean from a male or female perspective for one, emotional reactions, physical reactions, do you share your sorrow (if any), do you withdraw? It's really a loaded question.

Reply 5

Wineblood

123 Troubled ki

Are you in prison or something?

LoL, no.

Reply 6

Creepy

I deal with it by thinking that tomorrow is the first day of the rest of my life, and by thinking that there is someone out there for all of us, you just have to find them

I went through a hard time after a 27 month relationship, and i'm still not 100% over it, but life goes on...

Reply 7

bret

It depends on the circumstances behind the breakup. If it was truely mutual, which it rarely is, then cool.

I'm terrible at getting over people. i just mull the situation over and over in my head trying to rationalize and take a different approach to understanidng it. I'm one of these people who'll tell others to "get over it" whilst not being able to myself. i don't tend to go for the rebound thing. i'll just get pissed or something but i'll still have the feeling of being gutted long after.

It goes back i think, to the way i was as a kid. I'd have crushes, come of them illogical, and they'd last ages.

Reply 8

Jack0

Most of us simply can't 'deal' with a break up. We just have to bear with it and try and see things through, and may be you'll eventually get to a day when you don't think about the person who split up with you.

Reply 9

MattG

I bury the bodies where no one will look and take full responibility that our broken relationship made her leave the country...

Reply 10

El Scotto

Anonymous

How and in what ways do you deal with a breakup?

Depends on the breakup, If I split up with her I wouldnt be bothered.

IF I got split up mutually and we all ended up friends.. I wouldnt be bothered,

IF it was messy though, and she split up with me, and I was upset I'd probably sleep around for a bit starting with her bestfriend or sister.

Reply 11

Talya

El Scotto

IF I got split up mutually and we all ended up friends.. I wouldnt be bothered,

My boyfriend is always says 'yeah, if we do split up, i hope we'd remain friends' but I am so not that mature and would just hate his guts.

But we won't break up, so it's coo'.

Reply 12

Daragh

Jack0

Agreed with you on that one. It is difficult, but you one has to pull through it to see the light at the end of the tunnel

Reply 13

Lirael Abhorsen

what i think is difficult in these situations is noticing how attractive the other person is even if you disagree with them on ideological or personal grounds..