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Kish
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WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
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(Original post by Kish)
WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
Whatever you do in life, someone is always going to be better. You may not have found your strengths yet. It would probably help if you were a little more positive about yourself.
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Life is crap cos lifes what you make of it.
If you are down about your grades, see your tutors, consider extra tuition. I had extra tuition for chemistry when I did my A Levels and it was brilliant help.
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because instead of gettin on with life you keep asking why get a grip on life
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If you believe that you are the best you can be. On my shopping site (which I have got a very high grade for) I thought people will do better than me but I only try. It turns out I have probably got the best mark in the entire group.
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you see i have the complete opposite problem - i do better than everyone in everything i do - it is embarrassing and highly pressurising
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(Original post by Kish)
WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
You're probably none of those things. Take my advise. Grab life by the throat and give it a good fu*kn shake!
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you aren't dumb but your attitude is

Don't compare yourself to others as we're all different and have different skills and abilities, I mean I bet you'd kick my ass in badminton!

Don't go using the suicide word either. Really think about how much of a waste your life would be - your friends and family would be distraught, and you would never have a chance to show everyone how great you can become.

Chin up lad, it'll be ok xxx
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(Original post by Kish)
WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
You have probably found at least one thing that you're good at by now. What is it? Don't be embarrassed or think it's not worth commenting about. What is it? You can probably make a career out of it if you try hard enough.

Even geniuses envy other people and think that they'll never be the best in their field. That's what keeps people motivated to do better. It's healthy.

Probably best not commit suicide though - you'll never achieve your potential that way.
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(Original post by Kish)
WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
There's always somebody better than yourself at something (and there are also a great many people worse). The only person you should be challenging in a grades war is yourself. In the end, it doesn't matter in the slightest what other people get, only what you get. Also, if you convince yourself you're going to fail, you will, so try to convince yourself that you are going to succeed. Good luck.
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there will always be people that are worse than you. IN the same way there will always be people that are better. When you're feeling low just remind yourslef that there is somebody that is probably feeling worse.
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One great piece of advice I was got was that "there's always going to be someone younger and better than you...". But hey don't worry as long as you work hard and do you're best that's all that matters, you work hard and you'll get what you deserve. Just because you get C's now doesn't mean you can't improve on them (C's are good anyway), and anyway exam grades don't matter all that much anyway hard work and perceverance (sp) is way more important.

Don't let life get you down, turn that frown upside down
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Well your only young mate, you have loads of time left to be more satisfied with yourself... thats your biggest advantage of all, your youth . But dont worry i feel the same sometimes... but there are and will always be people who are greater and lesser than yourself, just be happy with what you have got, I expect that it could be sooo much worse
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You might have something else which you are really good at. Maybe sports, maybe music, maybe you are a brilliant friend, and have a kind and caring personality. Maybe you are a good listener etc... Different people are good at different things!
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(Original post by Kish)
WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
coz youre dumb, depressive and a coward?!
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don't be stupid man, the worst thing you kan do is commit suicide. it doesn't solve your problems, it makes em worse. and eventually people forget.

all that you kan do is your best, and nothing more. i bet that you did not try your best, almost no-one tries their best (a human fault, they should really fix that), but if you do, you will not feel bad when you get a C, because you know that you couldn't have done any better. But when you get depressed at bad grades, it is because you know that you didn't do your best, that is the reason.

hey i screwed up, i got E, D, C, C in AS, E in art and i have to work my ass off to get a C this year in A2.

there will always be someone better than you and worse than you. It just adds competition, to makes life more interesting.

don't be a dummy, go out there and kick some educational ass
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(Original post by Kish)
WHy is it that you're never good at anything??

why is it everyone is better than you at everything??

why am i so dumb??

how come i try my hardest and never get higher than a C grade?

How come i do ,less good, than others?

why is everyone clever than me, which makes me feel like crap?

Why can't i bring myself to commit suicide?

why is life so hard on me?????
quiet you. at least you have food on the table and a roof to live under.
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None of that stuff really matters. Just because you don't get brilliant grades, it doesn't mean you're destined to fail in life. I know two multi-millionaires, neither went to university. And even if you don't end up earning loads of money, is having a big house or posh furniture really going to make you happy? At the end of the day, the happiest people aren't the richest or the most intelligent, they're the people who are satisfied with what they've got.
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coz youre dumb, depressive and a coward?!
perfectly describes me.
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Well your only young mate, you have loads of time left to be more satisfied with yourself... thats your biggest advantage of all, your youth . But dont worry i feel the same sometimes... but there are and will always be people who are greater and lesser than yourself, just be happy with what you have got, I expect that it could be sooo much worse

You are the best
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