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My boyfriend is gone for a month and I hooked up with a guy I have known for a long time. I love my boyfriend, but unfortunately was just really drunk and feeling rebellious and acting stupid. I'm attracted to this other guy at the physical level, but I'm in love with my boyfriend.
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Being drunk and feeling ''rebellious'' is a **** excuse. You're stupid if you think that cheating equates to rebellion. You cheated, you'll have to deal with the consequences regardless of being in love with your boyfriend. Grow some balls and just put it simply to him.
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"Hunny, I'm sorry but I made out with another guy. Hug it out?"
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"I cheated" should about cover it.
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Just go out and say it. You were drunk, you wanted to do stuff with this guy and you did stuff with the guy. You regret doing it but at the end of the day you've breached the trust.
Answer any and all questions he might have.
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Hey, I thought I would let you know I broke your trust in the best way imaginable.
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You cheated on your boyfriend, ergo; you're not in love with him.

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(Original post by mel0n)
Being drunk and feeling ''rebellious'' is a **** excuse. You're stupid if you think that cheating equates to rebellion. You cheated, you'll have to deal with the consequenes regardless of being in love with your boyfriend. Grow some balls and just put it simply to him.
I didn't see it as an excuse, I think the OP was just trying to tell us about the scenario.

OP if it is an attempt at an excuse grow the **** up and take responsibility for your actions.
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You cheated on your boyfriend, ergo; you're not in love with him.
Behaviourist?
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(Original post by there's too much love)
I didn't see it as an excuse, I think the OP was just trying to tell us about the scenario.

OP if it is an attempt at an excuse grow the **** up and take responsibility for your actions.
Maybe :dontknow: My bad if it is. Although she says she's attracted to him on a physical level (regardless of the alcohol or whatever) so perhaps, yeah.
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lol****
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He gets to sleep with another 10 women of his choice!
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if you were feeling this way there usually is a reason which you need to find out your self, cheating is usually down to not being happy, or other factors such as peer pressure and stress. Firstly i would say you need to figure out why you did this i guess or the reasons behind it. and then just sit your boyfriend down and tell him that you need to talk and that you dont want him to get mad and you just want him to understand. Hopefully he will just let it go but if he is insecure he may not and dump you its the risk you need to take if you want him to know
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(Original post by there's too much love)
Behaviourist?
I'm just pragmatic and logical.
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if you were feeling this way there usually is a reason which you need to find out your self, cheating is usually down to not being happy, or other factors such as peer pressure and stress.
Or quite simply because OP is attracted to another guy. You don't have to be unhappy to get off with someone else.
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"Hunny, I'm sorry but I made out with another guy. Hug it out?
Don't say this, it is patronizing and lacks respect and awareness for the magnitude of the situation and his feelings for that matter.

Did you go all the way OP? Or was it just a kiss?
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You getting dumped. Feel bad for the guy.
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pluck up your guts and just tell him.
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You're absolutely disgusting. ****
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I'm just pragmatic and logical.
So with your amazing logic you thought you'd reduce peoples mental states and emotions down to behaviour?

Right, makes perfect sense:rolleyes:.

Read up on the philosophy of mind.
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