Virgins in their 20's who are NOT doing it through choice Watch

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I want to know how you cope in life.

I know there will be a barrage of comments telling me that virginity does not matter and you should not feel pressured to lose it and you should lose it at the right time. I have heard it time and time again so please do not lecture me about it.

The truth of the matter is that having sex does matter to almost everyone at a young age. I want to have sex. I do put sex and girls and girlfriends off my mind for things in life. I have to when I want to do work or other things but it is tough for me. Sex and girls comes into my mind a lot and I can't help it so life is tougher than it should be.

People act like sex and girlfriends shouldnt matter but it does. It matters a lot. Of course I dont act desperate in real life. I hide my feelings so people would never know (in fact I act like the opposite to people: like girls and sex dont matter) but in my head, I am a mess of sexual frustration who wants sex and would love a girlfriend too. I know some guys who have told me that once you lose your virginity, life does become so much easier.

Back to the original question: virgins in your 20's who are NOT doing it through choice, how do you cope in life?
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anyone?
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(Original post by Dr Pressure)
I want to know how you cope in life.

I know there will be a barrage of comments telling me that virginity does not matter and you should not feel pressured to lose it and you should lose it at the right time. I have heard it time and time again so please do not lecture me about it.

The truth of the matter is that having sex does matter to almost everyone at a young age. I want to have sex. I do put sex and girls and girlfriends off my mind for things in life. I have to when I want to do work or other things but it is tough for me. Sex and girls comes into my mind a lot and I can't help it so life is tougher than it should be.

People act like sex and girlfriends shouldnt matter but it does. It matters a lot. Of course I dont act desperate in real life. I hide my feelings so people would never know (in fact I act like the opposite to people: like girls and sex dont matter) but in my head, I am a mess of sexual frustration who wants sex and would love a girlfriend too. I know some guys who have told me that once you lose your virginity, life does become so much easier.

Back to the original question: virgins in your 20's who are NOT doing it through choice, how do you cope in life?
Sounds like you have the problem mate! Virginity is not a big deal at all. It really isn't. Why would it be? Having a stable relationship is a lot more important.
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Get over yourself, there are more important things, like being a decent person. Some of the crappiest people are having sex, some at bloody 12 nowadays, so it doesn't really mean much, does it?
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So you want someone in the opposite sex just to have sex with? That's all you care about.

Guess you think you are friendly and not shallow?

No remorse from me. Enjoy your hands.
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Try Escorts?
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you're reaally obsessed with sex wow
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you're reaally obsessed with sex wow
in a way i am. you wouldnt know it if you met me. you would think the opposite.
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Stop posting pathetic threads, get out there and live.
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95% of people that claim they've not lost it through choice have actually just convinced themself that they still have it by choice.
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95% of people that claim they've not lost it through choice have actually just convinced themself that they still have it by choice.
what do you mean?
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They claim they've had chances/offers but in reality, they've not.
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If I were a virgin I know my problem could be temporarily relived with a good fap and a keen imagination.
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I know a 24 year old virgin girl who blames this on guys for "all being dicks".
In reality she's just annoying as ****.


Anon in case she uses this site, I'm paranoid like that. :erm:


OP, I don't know why you can't get a gf, it could be any number of things... it's most likely that you just haven't met the right person, or if you have you haven't been able to get with her for whatever reason. It's important to take the opportunities that do arise. If you meet a girl you do like don't be scared to just go for it and ask her out. You can make it happen!
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(Original post by Dr Pressure)
in a way i am. you wouldnt know it if you met me. you would think the opposite.
like most guys i'd imagine...
and i'm referring to your posts on other sex threads, although that's probably your thread as well
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They claim they've had chances/offers but in reality, they've not.
i am not claiming that. i have never had an offer for sex ever. i wish i could have one.
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i am not claiming that. i have never had an offer for sex ever. i wish i could have one.
poor you :'(
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(Original post by kaylafrances)
poor you :'(
what? is that sarcastic or not?
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(Original post by Dr Pressure)
what? is that sarcastic or not?
well done
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Sex is sex. It's not the most important thing in the world, but sure who doesn't wanna get some now and then? There's no rush after all, and even if you ain't getting any from some girl you can always light your own fire so to speak
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