When girls give eachother compliments- are they bullcrapping? Watch

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I get so many compliments from females it's abmormal and im starting to believe that they just feel sorry for me or something. I went to a bridal shower and noticed the ladies staring at me, made me feel really uncomfortable. A couple days later my aunt wrote my mother an email thanking her for the gift and how I got so many compliments on how beautiful I am, that's awkward. There was another time when I was at a club, I went to the wash room and two girls walked in, when I passed by them one made a comment about how pretty I was, and the other girl was just like "meh". I get alot of compliments from random females, the more compliments i get from them the more insecure i feel.:confused: can anybody relate??
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Yeah I can relate people grope me when I walk down the street - pain in the ass really
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girls are sly :yep:
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Yeah, I know what you mean. It totally sucks when everyone keeps telling you how gorgeous you are. I can relate.


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I actually feel offended when girls compliment me because arent they suppose to feel jealous?
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Maybe they are taking the p*ss out of you
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Credit where credit is due - if a girl is pretty, I will tell her; if she is not, I will not. Take it for what it is.
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If girls give each other compliments over looks then it is often bullcrap. The way to measure if it's true or not is if there's a despairing "why aren't I as good looking as you" at the end of it, then it's probably true.

eg girl A says to girl B - "ggrrr I just love your figure babes, why can't I have a figure like yours!" (girl A thinks girl B has a nice figure and is wanting girl B to give her the magic secret tip) or another variation of it would be "ohh your make up is so gorgeous....where did you get that from/how did you do it?"

but if girl A says to girl B "don't worry babes, you'll find someone soon, you're gorgeous" (girl A doubts girl B will ever get a boyfriend due to the obvious fact she is lacking in the looks department, but is lying through her teeth to try and be nice)
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Some girls are just jealous and secretly hate you for it.
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You know you're ugly when your mum says you're beautiful.
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Sometimes it will be *****iness, but most of the time it's probably not. Unless you're attention seeking...
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If I think someones pretty or I like their hair or something, I'll tell them that
I tend to give compliments more to nice (maybe more shy?) girls though.

Once told a more 'outgoing' girl in my year that her new hair was nice (which is actually was.) and got told to f*** off. Meh.
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(Original post by ~ Dude :))
If I think someones pretty or I like their hair or something, I'll tell them that
I tend to give compliments more to nice (maybe more shy?) girls though.

Once told a more 'outgoing' girl in my year that her new hair was nice (which is actually was.) and got told to f*** off. Meh.

LOL. she told you to **** off???? wtf.
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(Original post by xobeauty)
LOL. she told you to **** off???? wtf.
She has mood swings.
Thought it might cheer her up as well, ha oh well
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Girls are hardly as conniving as people are suggesting.


However, that aside this post does look a little "Look at me, Look at me"
Umm..not at all. If i was seeking attention here, id post a pic.
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(Original post by ~ Dude :))
If I think someones pretty or I like their hair or something, I'll tell them that
I tend to give compliments more to nice (maybe more shy?) girls though.

Once told a more 'outgoing' girl in my year that her new hair was nice (which is actually was.) and got told to f*** off. Meh.
Interesting, sad & funny.
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(Original post by xobeauty)
Umm..not at all. If i was seeking attention here, id post a pic.
Not necessarily, you clearly can gloat by text alone.
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Not necessarily, you clearly can gloat by text alone.
No.
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No.
I'll match your amazing comeback... Yes.
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(Original post by xobeauty)
I get so many compliments from females it's abmormal and im starting to believe that they just feel sorry for me or something. I went to a bridal shower and noticed the ladies staring at me, made me feel really uncomfortable. A couple days later my aunt wrote my mother an email thanking her for the gift and how I got so many compliments on how beautiful I am, that's awkward. There was another time when I was at a club, I went to the wash room and two girls walked in, when I passed by them one made a comment about how pretty I was, and the other girl was just like "meh". I get alot of compliments from random females, the more compliments i get from them the more insecure i feel.:confused: can anybody relate??
If you're obviously ugly, then yes, they are saying it to make you feel better when in reality, they just think you're ugly.
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