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Hey all,

Anoned because she is a massive nerd like me and might read this place.

So I find myself with an unwanted conundrum. I'm currently at an adult college and intend to go to Uni in September as a mature student. I started a relationship around the start of the year with a girl who is really fun and I get along really well with.
What's the problem you may ask? Well I know that this isn't going to last for me. I am kinda against the idea of going away to Uni whilst in a relationship anyway, but there are things about her that make it obvious to me I never really want anything more than what we have now.
The problem is that our relationship is quite intense. As she doesn't live that close I've been spending 3-4 days a week staying at her place for the past couple of months and I feel like perhaps she feels that we are moving in a different direction to the one I feel we are.
In short I suppose I know what I should do and I will do it, but what the hell can I say to her if I do end it? "This was just meant to be a bit of fun"? I do genuinely care about her, just don't feel strongly about her in that way.
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Story of my life.
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Story of my life.
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Pointless stringing it out.
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This is how the conversation should unfold

You: I think we should end this

GF: Why do you want it to end?

You: It just doesn't feel right anymore as we once were. Its not the same.

GF: What do you mean? It seems normal to me. I thought we were happy together.

You: Well, it doesn't to me. I don't know what else to say. Its not you, its me!

GF: Every boy says that. (starting to cry)

You: WTF? You've been in a relationship with every boy. You cheated on me? How dare you! I am hurt. (now you start to cry as well whilst slowly hugging her)

Then have make up sex. No need to thank me. Enjoy it, its the best kind of sex. :mmm:
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