Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't find 100% attractive? Watch

Joe Weavurrr
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In all honesty, as much as you love someone, could you be in a relationship with someone that you didn't find 100% attractive.

Now, before I get a crap tonne of replies like "OMG YOUR SO SHALLOW"
I don't at all think that you can't! I'm just curious as to peoples opinions after a conversation I had with a friend earlier.

What i mean is, you're with someone and you get along perfectly, but lets say, their body is 100% not what you find attractive but their face is.

Would that be enough to make you like |: ?

Again, not being shallow. We all know looks do matter at the end of the day.
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Of course, are you slightly deluded? No woman I have ever dated has been totally my perfect woman. But when you care about a woman you can easily over look those flaws. But I couldnt date a woman I didn't find attractive.
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Short answer? Yes.
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I knew my ex wasn't good looking.
We met, we got on so well, he flirted, I liked it, I began to think he was pretty cute, and it went from there.
We were together for almost 2 years.
Yeah there was some attraction, but I still knew that he wasn't good looking to anyone else.
Still loved him though.

But after my latest boyfriend, who was the most gorgeous thing to ever walk the planet and I don't think I'll ever find anyone as hot as him again, I think my standards have highered.
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Depends on what you class as being 100% tbh.

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I hope my girlfriend can, or I'm ****ed.
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Yeah. I just become attracted to the person, rather than just their looks. A good personality (especially a good sense of humour) can actually make someone more good-looking to me, and therefore attract me to them. That is what happened with my current relationship.
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Of course. Noone is ever going to be your 'perfect' (wo)man but when you are with them they are perfect to you. For most people attraction is about more than looks.
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It probably wouldn't last too long.
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Yep, i went out with a guy for a while who wasn't the best looking but because i liked him so much i just looked past it. Now we're not together and im over him i do kinda look back and think yea if i didnt like him so much i may not have looked twice.

So short answer: yes
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Hence why I only hit on blind girls.
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No.
I need to be attracted to someone to be interested to get to know her personality. So if I don't feel attracted I will never even consider a relationship.
I don't care about extraordinary good looks but enough to make me feel attracted.
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Of course, no ones perfect...
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I've never found someone 100% attractive tbh
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This is the correct way to a relationship already. based upon experience and research women will judge looks, of course its human nature but then after re-asses you on personality. Generally. looks aren't everything.
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Of course. Everyone has their imperfections but meh nobody's perfect.
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Replacing 100% attractive with attractive. Then yes. I only ever get ugly girls. But hey, I'm pretty ugly myself. So who am I to complain?
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I've only ever had a crush on 2 people in my life...
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Yes.

1st girlfriend : extremely pretty but ended up being a very horrible person who I found out was false in terms of personality

2nd girlfriend : not as pretty as the 1st but her personality was a million times better which mattered more to me.

What I learnt : Get into relationships with girls who have nice personalities and not because they just look hot.
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What does 100% attractive mean. Everyone has imperfections, it's no big deal.
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