Asking someone out over fb? Watch

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I saw this guy in a club 5 weeks ago and I can't stop thinking about him. He probably doesn't even know I exist but we have a mutual friend on fb. I know it'll seem wierd if I just randomly message him on fb but is it worth the risk??
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Add him with a message saying 'Hey, think we met in (wherever) the other week x'. Just start a convo from there if he accepts.
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you are ****ing sad
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I'll be honest, if a girl i'd barely spoken to suddenly added me and asked me out over Facebook i'd think it was a wind up or one of her friends had fraped her. I don't think him accepting you will be a problem but get talking to him first and go from there.

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Add him with a message saying 'Hey, think we met in (wherever) the other week x'. Just start a convo from there if he accepts.
Basically this.
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You might as well go for it really, seeing as you've already spent five weeks contemplating about it, you have nothing to lose

(Original post by abc101)
Add him with a message saying 'Hey, think we met in (wherever) the other week x'. Just start a convo from there if he accepts.
Just do that ^
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If fb chat, yes.

Dont fb message it. Fb message is something you use to move into getting number -not suitable for dating stuff.

Chat's okay as yu get chance to casually brush it off as something less than it is. Last thing you want is the ability for him to delay response. That way not getting an response makes things awkward, very quickly.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I saw this guy in a club 5 weeks ago and I can't stop thinking about him. He probably doesn't even know I exist but we have a mutual friend on fb. I know it'll seem wierd if I just randomly message him on fb but is it worth the risk??
ask him to meet up for coffee somewhere then ask him out in person. asking humans out face to face is much better than online. trust me
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(Original post by musama91)
you are ****ing sad
Thanks Musama. Infact I think I ordered a musama in a restaurant a few weeks ago, your parents have good taste.

Btw guys I'm a guy, I saw him in a gay club. I don't think I'll message him, might seem a bit wierd. I'll just wait till I hopefully see him again...hopefully.
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and a bum bandit
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hey why the hell does it say i am a respected member? i only ever post rubbish!
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is lame.
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Pretty sure this is done almost universally now so the naysayers above are presumably time travellers from the 19th century

Just do it, why not?
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(Original post by musama91)
hey why the hell does it say i am a respected member? i only ever post rubbish!
Because you've posted a lot of rubbish. The title correlates with the number of posts you have made too.
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