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cant talk to friend

ok this is gonna be along post but i'd rather people knew all the details before offering me advice

In about september - I almost got to gether with this guy lets call him guy a but he decided that he wanted to try and make a go of things with girl A, I was fine with this and we stayed mates
in october I met guy b on holiday we ended up going out, but it was starting to feel wrong - you when your not bothered about making plans and stuff ( we lived an hour away from each other) so i decided to finish it. I heard from guy A while i was splitting up with guy b, he admitted to still having feelings for me - he had split wiv girl A so we decided to give it ago, I was soo happy he was one of the first guys i had trusted in ages ( i have trust issues) but girl A kept calling him and wanting to try again and then wrote him a 3 page letter, i have no idea whats in the letter but he asked me if we could finish it so he could sort his head out.
A day later i had a text from girl A telling me to stay away from "her other half" or id get what was coming to me.
yesterday afternoon a mutal friend texted me askin for hiss coat back and to call guy A at around 10 which i did and we had a chat but i had to go cos he had a incomming call. when i tried calling back i got no answer then girl A called me and asked why i kept calling guy A when he didnt want to talk to me.
i turned my fone off cos she wouldnt stop calling me, though i told her i wouldnt fone guy A if HE asked me not to and tht i only called cos i had been asked to
this morning i got a text from her saying something like - "you dont know what im like ask ** he will tell u im not all there if you talk to ben or his mates im gonna ****ing mutalate u"

basically I really like guy A as a mate ( and more but if he wants to be with girl a thts fine) and i dont no what to do

Reply 1

Ok, you put guy A's name, even though you tried to hide it.

If you feel genuinly threatened by this girl, save the text messages and report it to your Phone Provider or even the police, the text is a severe threat, and is classed as harrasment.

On your relationship with the guy? He isn't worth your time... move on, you'll find someone right for you.

Reply 2

i kinda wanna no if i should just not talk to this guy although that means leaving one of my friendship groups which i dnt wanna do

Reply 3

In a nutshell, No. The cons will outway the Pro's... but that's my opinion.