ok this is gonna be along post but i'd rather people knew all the details before offering me advice
In about september - I almost got to gether with this guy lets call him guy a but he decided that he wanted to try and make a go of things with girl A, I was fine with this and we stayed mates
in october I met guy b on holiday we ended up going out, but it was starting to feel wrong - you when your not bothered about making plans and stuff ( we lived an hour away from each other) so i decided to finish it. I heard from guy A while i was splitting up with guy b, he admitted to still having feelings for me - he had split wiv girl A so we decided to give it ago, I was soo happy he was one of the first guys i had trusted in ages ( i have trust issues) but girl A kept calling him and wanting to try again and then wrote him a 3 page letter, i have no idea whats in the letter but he asked me if we could finish it so he could sort his head out.
A day later i had a text from girl A telling me to stay away from "her other half" or id get what was coming to me.
yesterday afternoon a mutal friend texted me askin for hiss coat back and to call guy A at around 10 which i did and we had a chat but i had to go cos he had a incomming call. when i tried calling back i got no answer then girl A called me and asked why i kept calling guy A when he didnt want to talk to me.
i turned my fone off cos she wouldnt stop calling me, though i told her i wouldnt fone guy A if HE asked me not to and tht i only called cos i had been asked to
this morning i got a text from her saying something like - "you dont know what im like ask ** he will tell u im not all there if you talk to ben or his mates im gonna ****ing mutalate u"
basically I really like guy A as a mate ( and more but if he wants to be with girl a thts fine) and i dont no what to do