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Really trying to get out of a 'shoot' with a very weird photographer who I think is a bit creepy, and is trying it on all my friends :eek:

I thought he was OK, but I think he's a bit on himself saying that he's one of the best togs in Australia, rarara etc, and now I just don't wanna work with him The problem is, he knows I'm gonna be in Sydney from the 8th (that's tomorrow) till the 13th of December, but the real reason I'm going is to see friends, go surfing and to stay with my 2nd cousin coz I haven't seen her in ages and she's cool...

He just sent me this email:

"Hi Danni, don't forget I've organised a shoot on ALL of the days
that you are here apart from the 11th. sometimes only in the
afternoon till sunsett. I don't have Kylie, Suzie and Sarah's numbers yet so if you can get their no.s ASAP give a call.
Cheers
*the photographer, name can't be disclosed*"

And the only reason why he is leaving out the 11th is because I made up some excuse about going to a Jewish thing with my relatives up in Sydney (this is partly true. I am not Jewish tho! Just these relatives are :cool: ).

Aaaaaarrrgghhhh! I really hate him now, I thought he'd get the message :rolleyes:

He's old too, like 41 :eek:

I wonder how I can get out of this...
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Really trying to get out of a 'shoot' with a very weird photographer who I think is a bit creepy, and is trying it on all my friends :eek:

I thought he was OK, but I think he's a bit on himself saying that he's one of the best togs in Australia, rarara etc, and now I just don't wanna work with him The problem is, he knows I'm gonna be in Sydney from the 8th (that's tomorrow) till the 13th of December, but the real reason I'm going is to see friends, go surfing and to stay with my 2nd cousin coz I haven't seen her in ages and she's cool...

He just sent me this email:

"Hi Danni, don't forget I've organised a shoot on ALL of the days
that you are here apart from the 11th. sometimes only in the
afternoon till sunsett. I don't have Kylie, Suzie and Sarah's numbers yet so if you can get their no.s ASAP give a call.
Cheers
*the photographer, name can't be disclosed*"

And the only reason why he is leaving out the 11th is because I made up some excuse about going to a Jewish thing with my relatives up in Sydney (this is partly true. I am not Jewish tho! Just these relatives are :cool: ).

Aaaaaarrrgghhhh! I really hate him now, I thought he'd get the message :rolleyes:

He's old too, like 41 :eek:

I wonder how I can get out of this...
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Say no? :rolleyes:
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Say no? :rolleyes:
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i h8 old pervy men. talk bout ur bf lol like all the time. if he tries it on give him a slap
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i h8 old pervy men. talk bout ur bf lol like all the time. if he tries it on give him a slap
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Say no? :rolleyes:
Easier said than done I'm afraid

He's like 'oh I'll tell all your friends on what you're missing out, and I'll make sure you never get into Sports Illustrated etc etc'

Lol whatever! Seriously I don't want to do things like that, I'm looking for more catalogue work, really (e.g. Seafolly would be rad!).

@ bettyboop: I know, and has a wife as well! Perhaps I should talk about her Go 'wow, I'm sure your wife must be proud of her successful photographer husband' :rolleyes:
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Say no? :rolleyes:
Easier said than done I'm afraid

He's like 'oh I'll tell all your friends on what you're missing out, and I'll make sure you never get into Sports Illustrated etc etc'

Lol whatever! Seriously I don't want to do things like that, I'm looking for more catalogue work, really (e.g. Seafolly would be rad!).

@ bettyboop: I know, and has a wife as well! Perhaps I should talk about her Go 'wow, I'm sure your wife must be proud of her successful photographer husband' :rolleyes:
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yer gud idea!! think you should. also if he does try anything on threaten to do him for sexual harrasement
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yer gud idea!! think you should. also if he does try anything on threaten to do him for sexual harrasement
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yer gud idea!! think you should. also if he does try anything on threaten to do him for sexual harrasement
I think I will, because it's getting quite bad. He made me feel guilty the first and last time I saw him because I said that I was the type of person who kept my clothes on (my mother is Catholic, strict upbringing), refused underwear work (lingerie) and mentioned that I would do only fashion and swimsuit modelling at the most.

He was like 'oh forget it, you won't get any work, you're far too fridgid, you won't even let me see your breasts'

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yer gud idea!! think you should. also if he does try anything on threaten to do him for sexual harrasement
I think I will, because it's getting quite bad. He made me feel guilty the first and last time I saw him because I said that I was the type of person who kept my clothes on (my mother is Catholic, strict upbringing), refused underwear work (lingerie) and mentioned that I would do only fashion and swimsuit modelling at the most.

He was like 'oh forget it, you won't get any work, you're far too fridgid, you won't even let me see your breasts'

:eek:

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that is just crossing the line, is there anyone you can talk to that could put him in his position. hes just trying to pressure you into doing it, when men want something they always call u fridgid. will he stop u from getting work?
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that is just crossing the line, is there anyone you can talk to that could put him in his position. hes just trying to pressure you into doing it, when men want something they always call u fridgid. will he stop u from getting work?
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Really trying to get out of a 'shoot' with a very weird photographer ...
Did you make a commitment??
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Really trying to get out of a 'shoot' with a very weird photographer ...
Did you make a commitment??
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Did you make a commitment??
Well when my mates and I first saw him, we played the game a bit (for work reasons) and were nice to him, yes. However that was just general ettiquette :confused: Anyway he is Sydney based, so when I mentioned that I'd be in Sydney later this week (I'm @ Canberra atm) to see friends, relatives and to CHILL OUT at the beach + go surfing, he asked if I would like to work with him.

I did say yes, but I'm angry now that he is demanding I work with him the WHOLE week! :mad: It's like 'I'm sorry, did you not think I had a life or something?' :rolleyes:

But yeah, Douglas, I guess I did say that I was available to see him
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Did you make a commitment??
Well when my mates and I first saw him, we played the game a bit (for work reasons) and were nice to him, yes. However that was just general ettiquette :confused: Anyway he is Sydney based, so when I mentioned that I'd be in Sydney later this week (I'm @ Canberra atm) to see friends, relatives and to CHILL OUT at the beach + go surfing, he asked if I would like to work with him.

I did say yes, but I'm angry now that he is demanding I work with him the WHOLE week! :mad: It's like 'I'm sorry, did you not think I had a life or something?' :rolleyes:

But yeah, Douglas, I guess I did say that I was available to see him
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I'm about to send off an email to him now, any ideas guys? :cool:

How about just not seeing him at all now? B/c I did want to get some pics done with him, as he is pretty good, but I have decided I won't now at all lol.

I don't really need them, besides my friends can take some coz I'll be at the beach surfing later this week anyway What are your thoughts on this?
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I'm about to send off an email to him now, any ideas guys? :cool:

How about just not seeing him at all now? B/c I did want to get some pics done with him, as he is pretty good, but I have decided I won't now at all lol.

I don't really need them, besides my friends can take some coz I'll be at the beach surfing later this week anyway What are your thoughts on this?
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