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#81
(Original post by Potential Trigger)
My gf always says I am "abnormal" because I hate seeing 2 girls kiss or the fact that I am never turned on by lesbian porn.
My gf always says I am "abnormal" because I hate seeing 2 girls kiss or the fact that I am never turned on by lesbian porn.
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#84
(Original post by Antonia87)
Virtually every man I know would not have a problem if their girlfriend was making out other girls.
Weird, I know. My boyfriend, on the other hand, dumped an ex girlfriend because they were in a club and she gleefully told him she had just snogged another girl, expecting him to not care, or find it a turn on. He left her that minute.
Virtually every man I know would not have a problem if their girlfriend was making out other girls.
Weird, I know. My boyfriend, on the other hand, dumped an ex girlfriend because they were in a club and she gleefully told him she had just snogged another girl, expecting him to not care, or find it a turn on. He left her that minute.
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#85
(Original post by shouldbeshot)
Read the quote back you dullard. I shall write the important parts in bold for you if that helps you to understand....
"a few years back" Well, considering that I am 22 now, one might deduce I was a silly little teenager at the time.....
Then my surprise at my current boyfriends reaction was the FACT that he was warning me not to do it again, when obviously I have no intention due to the fact that I consider myself a grown up now. It highlights his insecurity rather than my "tendency" to share myself without his permission.
Oh and I am expecting my first child so really, why would I want to do something like that again.....
Read the quote back you dullard. I shall write the important parts in bold for you if that helps you to understand....
"a few years back" Well, considering that I am 22 now, one might deduce I was a silly little teenager at the time.....
Then my surprise at my current boyfriends reaction was the FACT that he was warning me not to do it again, when obviously I have no intention due to the fact that I consider myself a grown up now. It highlights his insecurity rather than my "tendency" to share myself without his permission.
Oh and I am expecting my first child so really, why would I want to do something like that again.....
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#86
(Original post by shouldbeshot)
It highlights his insecurity
It highlights his insecurity
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#87
(Original post by WelshBluebird)
No it doesn't. It just shows he classes it as cheating. Nothing to do with insecurities at all.
No it doesn't. It just shows he classes it as cheating. Nothing to do with insecurities at all.
The fact that he has to tell me not to cheat when he knows how much I love him shows his insecurity....I never said it wasn't cheating, I simply said when I was younger it didn't occur to me. Now it does. He is the one who has said he is insecure!!!
(Original post by L i b)
I find your righteous indignation amusing considering you've more or less conceded every part of my well-framed insult.
I find your righteous indignation amusing considering you've more or less conceded every part of my well-framed insult.
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#90
Absolutely not. I am his and his alone. I revel in the fact that I'm his and he's mine, that would completely destroy the little world I'm in!
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#92
Erm ... no.
I have kind of mixed views on this.
I'm a straight girl, but I've always found women attractive although I wouldn't consider a relationship with a girl. Does that even make sense?
Anyway, I used to have a **** buddy and I said that if I found a girl attractive I would be willing to have a threesome. It never happened.
So, I have a boyfriend now and would never consider "sharing" within a real relationship.
I have kind of mixed views on this.
I'm a straight girl, but I've always found women attractive although I wouldn't consider a relationship with a girl. Does that even make sense?
Anyway, I used to have a **** buddy and I said that if I found a girl attractive I would be willing to have a threesome. It never happened.
So, I have a boyfriend now and would never consider "sharing" within a real relationship.
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#93
(Original post by shouldbeshot)
No....
The fact that he has to tell me not to cheat when he knows how much I love him shows his insecurity....I never said it wasn't cheating, I simply said when I was younger it didn't occur to me. Now it does. He is the one who has said he is insecure!!!
No....
The fact that he has to tell me not to cheat when he knows how much I love him shows his insecurity....I never said it wasn't cheating, I simply said when I was younger it didn't occur to me. Now it does. He is the one who has said he is insecure!!!
Anyone I know would feel a little insecure if their partner had admitted cheating in the past.
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#94
I'm liberal - depends on what exactly the relationship with the girl was. If it was just sex, and we both wanted a bit more fun, sure, why not.
EDIT: As a friend pointed out my double standards here, I've decided to edit this - yeah, I 'share' my girlfriend, but it wasn't by my choice. Before I get owned for that - we aren't serious, and I have no problem with it, so.
EDIT: As a friend pointed out my double standards here, I've decided to edit this - yeah, I 'share' my girlfriend, but it wasn't by my choice. Before I get owned for that - we aren't serious, and I have no problem with it, so.
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#95
Someday I will find the love of my life. We will flirt and maybe do a handful of inappropriate things (pun intended) before we marry and deflower each other. At this point neither of us is ever allowed to look at anyone else, ever. We will eventually grow bored of each other in bed, but find comfort in the fact that we are not as vile or depraved as the OP. 
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#96
I don't think anyone with a secure relationship would want to "share" their girlfriend or wife. You should have some control on your desires once you are in a relationship and respect each other by keeping things between yourselves and private from others.
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#97
(Original post by WelshBluebird)
And can you blame him for being "insecure" when you admit to cheating (and yes, it is cheating) in the past? Of course he is going to be wary about it.
Anyone I know would feel a little insecure if their partner had admitted cheating in the past.
And can you blame him for being "insecure" when you admit to cheating (and yes, it is cheating) in the past? Of course he is going to be wary about it.
Anyone I know would feel a little insecure if their partner had admitted cheating in the past.
Yes but the point is, how many silly little teenage girls have thought it funny to kiss another girl and go "Ooooh aren't I cool"
Surely ones perspective should change dependent on how old you are when you do it? Its not like I had full blown lesbian sex with the girl! I only mentioned it to him in a "wasn't I an idiot when I was a teenager" sort of way, hence my surprise when he turned around and said that meant I had a past history of cheating. That to me is taking it out of context... Yes I believe it wouldn't have been that different if it had been a boy BUT in the context of how old I was, I think its unfair for him to then deem myself as a cheater.
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#98
(Original post by Stefanb)
I think it's cheating, my gf doesn't on the other hand.. fortunately she's decent enough to say she wouldn't if I feel like that!
I think it's cheating, my gf doesn't on the other hand.. fortunately she's decent enough to say she wouldn't if I feel like that!
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#100
(Original post by shouldbeshot)
Yes but the point is, how many silly little teenage girls have thought it funny to kiss another girl and go "Ooooh aren't I cool"
Yes but the point is, how many silly little teenage girls have thought it funny to kiss another girl and go "Ooooh aren't I cool"
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