Girls: 'Blokey blokes' or 'Guys that are in touch with their feminine side'?

Poll

Which one?

Was reading an article on this earlier on, wanted to know your opinions,
of course it depends on the girl, but would you prefer a guy who looks quite masculine, 'muscles, decent clothes, stubble' or the guy who doesn't look as masculine 'skinny jeans, long - ish hair, ear pierce etc'?

Let's just say both these types of guys treated you well, and acted like a gentleman blah blah, merely based on their characteristics/looks, which one?

:tongue:

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Reply 1

bertiejess

Definitely masculine - wouldn't want a guy that took longer than me to do their hair!

Reply 2

onlyskin

well I think skinny jeans on the right guy can be decent clothes, and I'd rather the guy wasn't too muscly but a bit of stubble is nice? so it's not that clear cut...long hair is a no though

Reply 3

j.laurence

Original post by bertiejess

Definitely masculine - wouldn't want a guy that took longer than me to do their hair!

OP even if i was a desperate nympho girl i wouldnt even go out with the likes of this:

Reply 4

Eveiebaby

Men in touch with their feminine side. Meaning: I want someone who will have a better understanding/empathy of women and a better emotional connection with me if that isnt a woman already....

Reply 5

awais590

Original post by j.laurence

OP even if i was a desperate nympho girl i wouldnt even go out with the likes of this:

personal preference i guess, but i'd agree with you.
:rofl:

Reply 6

aja89

He can be as laddish or as camp as he wants, as long as he looks like this. :coma:

Reply 7

Ciaran88

Original post by Eveiebaby

Men in touch with their feminine side. Meaning: I want someone who will have a better understanding/empathy of women and a better emotional connection with me if that isnt a woman already....

I think they're referring to "look" / "style" rather than personality.

Reply 8

Hylean

Original post by awais590

Since when was long hair a characteristic of a more effeminate man?

Reply 9

natalie9234

masculine men that arent afraid to get in touch with their feminine side, when persuaded :smile:

but anyone with guyliner, long straightened hair, skinny jeans, not for me.

Reply 10

Arturo Bandini

Original post by Hylean

Since when was long hair a characteristic of a more effeminate man?

Since 1971.

Reply 11

Ciaran88

Original post by Hylean

Since when was long hair a characteristic of a more effeminate man?

Since the late 70s mate.

EDIT:

Original post by Arturo Bandini

Since 1971.

Schnap!

Reply 12

Dumdedoobie

I prefer them to look masculine, but still be sensitive etc :h:

Reply 13

Holly Hiskey

Happy medium? Not too emotional or clingy though, never a good look.

Reply 14

Cicerao

In between?! :lolwut:

Can't stand lads or pussies.

Reply 15

Woffles

Original post by Milky Milk

The first one most definately. If I wanted to date a girl, I'd be a lesbian thanks.

Yes because all men that are "in touch" with their feminine sides are girls.....

Reply 16

Hermione_moo

in the middle. I don't want some bloke whos beating his chest all day monkey style, nore do I want some guy who hogs the bathroom and borrows my makeup.