I'm in a similar situation. I've been with my boyfriend for around a year now and I'm not really sure if I fancy him anymore. I still care about him so much, but think my feelings may now be platonic. I'd really hate to lose his friendship if we were to break up.
I know he still likes me very much and so breaking up would really hurt him (not that that is a good enough reason to stay with him). He recently suggested we have a short break from each other because he knew I didn’t seem happy for some reason, and my unhappiness was making me less affectionate towards him, which understandably upset him. He’s hoping that after our ‘break’ I will be more interested in him again.
Now I'm not sure what to do...If I break up with him it would be horrible for both of us, and I do still really care about him so not sure if these feelings I have are temporary….you see I’ve been feeling rather depressed the last few weeks/months, and have had a general lack of interest in more affectionate/sexual things with him, but I’m not sure if this is due to the contraceptive pill I was taking (which I have recently changed from), or if It’s because I’m not longer interested in him in that way. Argh, it's such a difficult situation. I don’t want to rush into anything, but can't keep him waiting forever.