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advice: being ignored...
right, i had been in the process of getting with this girl for a while. she would always talk to her friends about me, and send me lots of provocative text messages etc...
and a couple of weeks ago i finally got the nerve to buy her a drink, talk to her etc, and we hooked up.
she even pretended she didnt like dancing and wouldnt dance, because she knows i hate it.
things went well for about a week, and then she started being strange.
never texting me unless i texted her first, replying, but not very much.
on sunday, i had arranged to meet some mutual friends in the bar, so i was hanging out with them and she came in, said "hi" to me and then wouldnt even look at me all night!
i went to the toilet and one of her friends swore at my back and mouthed piss off at me.
i wanted to ask her what was up, and what had changed but didnt get the chance 1) seeing as she was never alone and 2) seeing as she wouldnt even look at me.
i was upset for about a day, and then figured i was ok, and i was going ok until i was out last night (with the mutual friends) and she was there. i couldnt pay attention to anything else apart from her and it really ruined the night.
since it has been so long without talking to her, i dont rly feel i can say "what happened? whats going on?" now.. i dont know what to do.
and a couple of weeks ago i finally got the nerve to buy her a drink, talk to her etc, and we hooked up.
she even pretended she didnt like dancing and wouldnt dance, because she knows i hate it.
things went well for about a week, and then she started being strange.
never texting me unless i texted her first, replying, but not very much.
on sunday, i had arranged to meet some mutual friends in the bar, so i was hanging out with them and she came in, said "hi" to me and then wouldnt even look at me all night!
i went to the toilet and one of her friends swore at my back and mouthed piss off at me.
i wanted to ask her what was up, and what had changed but didnt get the chance 1) seeing as she was never alone and 2) seeing as she wouldnt even look at me.
i was upset for about a day, and then figured i was ok, and i was going ok until i was out last night (with the mutual friends) and she was there. i couldnt pay attention to anything else apart from her and it really ruined the night.
since it has been so long without talking to her, i dont rly feel i can say "what happened? whats going on?" now.. i dont know what to do.
L.J
Call her, pretend you didn't even notice and ask if she fancies going out sometime. If she says no, just be all happy, and say "okay, maybe another time, bye". Then forget her, if she ignores you and 'dumps' you for no reason, she's a loser.
Tell her friends to **** off and mind their own business.
Tell her friends to **** off and mind their own business.
pretend i didnt notice that in 3 nghts out she wont even look at me? and that we havent spoken for 5 days?
plus i hate phoning people, and im not doing it by text.
i have pretty much accepted she has "dumped me" i just want to find out why?
one of my friends (a 3rd year ...) had a go at him in the toilets
"if you ever do that again, im going to knock your head off"
no when i look at him he lowers his head.
The Crow
MWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! IM GOING TO HIJACK YOUR THREAD PEOPLE
and also stalk trigger but dont tell her!!!!
and also stalk trigger but dont tell her!!!!
the thread hijacking was the main thinng i noticed..
and you didnt give me any advice.
thanks a lot, waster
Stop any form of interaction and get on with your life. If she's interested she'll get in touch. I had a situation like this ages ago where I got totally ignored for about a week so I just stopped bothering and acted as if I was single.
I got collared by the girl who demanded why I hadn't been in touch as I was her boyfriend so I politely reminded her that I don't do "being ignored for no reason" and either she apologised or she was dumped. She apologised and then I dumped her anyway. I was such a bastard in my youth. But people (especially some women) need to learn the hard way that you have to treat people with respect. I think some girls genuinely believe that they are doing you a big favour by going out with them.
I got collared by the girl who demanded why I hadn't been in touch as I was her boyfriend so I politely reminded her that I don't do "being ignored for no reason" and either she apologised or she was dumped. She apologised and then I dumped her anyway. I was such a bastard in my youth. But people (especially some women) need to learn the hard way that you have to treat people with respect. I think some girls genuinely believe that they are doing you a big favour by going out with them.
Joe_87
Just text her saying something along the lines of 'what the hell is your problem?' It sounds to me like its over anyway, so you may as well get some answers.
yes, i concur.
apart from the fact i will be hanging out with our friends, so i am bound to see her a fair bit... cant be having us falling out badly, else i lose aboug 5 friends!
ChemistBoy
Stop any form of interaction and get on with your life. If she's interested she'll get in touch. I had a situation like this ages ago where I got totally ignored for about a week so I just stopped bothering and acted as if I was single.
I got collared by the girl who demanded why I hadn't been in touch as I was her boyfriend so I politely reminded her that I don't do "being ignored for no reason" and either she apologised or she was dumped. She apologised and then I dumped her anyway. I was such a bastard in my youth. But people (especially some women) need to learn the hard way that you have to treat people with respect. I think some girls genuinely believe that they are doing you a big favour by going out with them.
I got collared by the girl who demanded why I hadn't been in touch as I was her boyfriend so I politely reminded her that I don't do "being ignored for no reason" and either she apologised or she was dumped. She apologised and then I dumped her anyway. I was such a bastard in my youth. But people (especially some women) need to learn the hard way that you have to treat people with respect. I think some girls genuinely believe that they are doing you a big favour by going out with them.
i have been acting like i was single, but i realised i wasnt rly attracted to the girl i was semi chasing, and i need to get my head sorted before i can move on.
well.. i doubt this will happen though. its really harsh she wont explain.
mangomaz
It sounds like shes playing games with you.... Argh I hate when people play games; most irritating thing ever.
Leave it till shes matured a bit.
Leave it till shes matured a bit.
yes, games are so annoying. either you like me, or you dont.
thats what people have been saying to me, just tell her to F off.
and if it wasnt for the friends i think i would.
mangomaz
It sounds like shes playing games with you.... Argh I hate when people play games; most irritating thing ever.
Leave it till shes matured a bit.
Leave it till shes matured a bit.
yes, games are so annoying. either you like me or you dont.
true, some people have been telling me to tell her to F off.
if it wasnt the fact we hsare some friends, i would.
Anonymous
i have been acting like i was single, but i realised i wasnt rly attracted to the girl i was semi chasing, and i need to get my head sorted before i can move on.
well.. i doubt this will happen though. its really harsh she wont explain.
well.. i doubt this will happen though. its really harsh she wont explain.
to be honest do you really want to know? It's just going to be something you don't want to hear so chalk it down to experience and move on. You ca just tell people that she's a wierdo.
ChemistBoy
to be honest do you really want to know? It's just going to be something you don't want to hear so chalk it down to experience and move on. You ca just tell people that she's a wierdo.
true... but its like a car crash. you dont want to look but you just have to.
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