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TheEnigmaUK
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I don't want her to feel as if I'm pressuring her into being sexy, or make her think that she isn't sexy as she is. I went to Brighton last weekend with the lads, and all the girls on the nights out looked really sexy. I mean girls were wearing low cut, figure hugging dresses showing off their legs/thighs. I'm not going to lie, I kept wishing that my girlfriend would dress like that on a night out. I mean she's got an awesome figure but she never flaunts it outside of the bedroom (wink wink). I don't know, maybe I'm attracted to the trashy looking girls on a night out, but when my girlfriend goes out, she usually always wears floral dresses or jeans.

Below is an example of the type of dress she wears.

http://www.weddingo.co.uk/wp-content...oral-dress.jpg

http://www.fashion-stylist.net/blog/...rever21(1).jpg

Now, this is what I'd like her to wear on a night out!

http://cdn.flirtcatalog.com/images/p.../755562_1_.jpg

http://www.the-sensual-woman.com/sto...057la8005l.jpg

I don't want her to feel that I don't think she's attractive in what she normally wears, but I would just like her to have a change once in a while to something sexy/provocative looking.
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Ew, that second dress is just gross. Might as well go out wearing a bath towel, of the same measurements. :/

Anyway, just voice your wish/fantasy. Or buy her a dress instead, and ask her to wear it to your date or whatever??
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Yea the first one if hot - you just want to bend her over don't you?
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Tight jeans can be very sexy if worn with the right top. Also, if she dresses like a **** you'll have to fight off the random drunk pervs who will try and dance with her.
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Buy it for a private viewing? For heavens sake tell her.
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What do you want from us? Consent?

Just ask her nicely. Tell her that she's got a great figure and that she should show it off more.

What other response were you expecting?
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Maybe she just doesn't feel comfortable wearing dresses as short and, if I'm honest, tarty as the examples you posted. It doesn't matter if she's got a great figure if she's not confident to go out in something that barely covers her bum.


But meh, you can give it a shot and ask her to wear something like that. The worst she could do is say no.
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Ew those last two dresses look pretty trampy...
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Maybe she has more class than those girls... But tbh all 4 dresses are ugly
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I don't really get it, you want her to go out looking like a *** so other guys can get boners over her? You get her naked, why do you want her to go out like that.....let her wear what she wants. She's probably not comfortable wearing that stuff and tbh I don't blame her. The male attention that stuff can bring can be quite uncomfortable.
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How about making the suggestion by buying her a dress you like, however, not the second one in the second link :rolleyes: but really you want her to look like that

Just talk to her. It doesn't need to be a big issue...
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Well, I like those dresses that she wears the sort of thing that I'd wear, tbh. Maybe the shortest, lowest cut, tightest dresses aren't her style. You should be happy that you're the only guy who gets to see her at her sexiest.
:erm: OR she might be want to wear more sexy stuff but not know that you'd be ok with it - a lot of boyfriends would rather their girl's covered up rather than flaunted, unfortunately you should ask her what she thinks of those dresses and remind her that she'd look really sexy in one..
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(Original post by TheEnigmaUK)
I don't want her to feel as if I'm pressuring her into being sexy, or make her think that she isn't sexy as she is. I went to Brighton last weekend with the lads, and all the girls on the nights out looked really sexy. I mean girls were wearing low cut, figure hugging dresses showing off their legs/thighs. I'm not going to lie, I kept wishing that my girlfriend would dress like that on a night out. I mean she's got an awesome figure but she never flaunts it outside of the bedroom (wink wink). I don't know, maybe I'm attracted to the trashy looking girls on a night out, but when my girlfriend goes out, she usually always wears floral dresses or jeans.

Below is an example of the type of dress she wears.

http://www.weddingo.co.uk/wp-content...oral-dress.jpg

http://www.fashion-stylist.net/blog/...rever21(1).jpg

Now, this is what I'd like her to wear on a night out!

http://cdn.flirtcatalog.com/images/p.../755562_1_.jpg

http://www.the-sensual-woman.com/sto...057la8005l.jpg

I don't want her to feel that I don't think she's attractive in what she normally wears, but I would just like her to have a change once in a while to something sexy/provocative looking.
I understand you might want your girlfriend to dress up a bit more from something that's not very club-y, but I think the two dresses you suggested are very trashy. Showing off your figure and looking sexy, but classy, is one thing, looking like a **** is another.

Besides, it's her choice what she wears. As someone else has said, you should be glad you have a girlfriend who isn't afraid to be a bit different.
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Maybe take her shopping and point to things saying 'you'd look really hot in this'.

I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't take to it though, I dress what I consider to be quite slutty on a night out, and both of the dresses you posted are way past that.
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So basically you just want her to wear trashy stuff so you can feel proud to flaunt her in front of your mates?

I don't really agree with that, but if you insist...when you're out in town together if you see a girl wearing a dress you like just say "I think you'd look way better than her in that dress!"
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I think this is a troll - no guy would want his girlfriend to look that slutty where anyone else could see her. Maybe suggest it as bedroom dress (so for your eye's only) ... but appreciate that she seems like a decent, respectable girl.
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Shouldn't she be her most sexiest with no clothes on right? Think about that.
Yeah I know, I don't know, I just would like her to dress sexy. I see these guys with their girlfriends on a night out, and there girls are wearing skimpy dresses and that's what I would like her to wear. I do understand that she would be attracting bad attention from it though.
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I mean she's got an awesome figure but she never flaunts it outside of the bedroom (wink wink).
Not tryin' to be smart, really not seeing your problem here. If you want her to dress a bit sexier, drop a few hints but at the end of the day, does she really have to flaunt it outside of the bedroom?
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I understand you might want your girlfriend to dress up a bit more from something that's not very club-y, but I think the two dresses you suggested are very trashy. Showing off your figure and looking sexy, but classy, is one thing, looking like a **** is another.

Besides, it's her choice what she wears. As someone else has said, you should be glad you have a girlfriend who isn't afraid to be a bit different.
Yeah, I guess your right!
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LoL.. what exactly do you want to achieve if she says yes and wears those clothes? Your just getting competition from other idiots. Be happy that she's not one of the girls that dress like ***'s. Looking sexy is something she mainly should be when you are in bed and not in clubs where every idiot stares at her.
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