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Reply 80

3

Ah no, not another thread on f*k buddies. I got 20 points of neg rep last time there was one of these threads for saying I had one. She's now my girlfriend so I can avoid the neg rep this time lol

Reply 81

Laursy

10

Ah no, not another thread on f*k buddies. I got 20 points of neg rep last time there was one of these threads for saying I had one. She's now my girlfriend so I can avoid the neg rep this time lol

why the neg reps thats just imature i couldn;t care less what people on here think of me to be quite honest lol
thats proves that there is no harm in them is there!!

Reply 82

Segat1

16

Poica

As I see it, if you're single it means you don't have sex. I'm surprised the number of people who would actually do this actually. Maybe I'm just old fashioned.

Uh, no. I think you just have a different opinion, which is ok ! Thats just me.

Reply 83

username9303

3

Laursy

why the neg reps thats just imature i couldn;t care less what people on here think of me to be quite honest lol
thats proves that there is no harm in them is there!!

The thing is, you have to remember that there are a lot of sad people who can't even pull a girl, so when they see people who are just having casual sex and not really caring about each other, they get a little irate. That's what I think anyway.

Reply 84

Laursy

10

so if you are single for ten years you should go without for that long you'll close up in that amount of time lol

Reply 85

username9303

3

Laursy

so if you are single for ten years you should go without for that long you'll close up in that amount of time lol

Indeed you would!

Reply 86

Segat1

16

olliemccowan

Indeed you would!

Reply 87

username9303

3

segat1

Come on, imagine no sex for 10 years! (this is excluding the time before you first had sex by the way)

Reply 88

username9303

3

Gotta stop yourself oliver.

Reply 89

Helenia

20

Oh don't be silly you two.

If people want to stay with one person for the rest of their lives, so be it. This does not necessarily mean, Laursy, that that person is a "dependant ididot excuse of a guy hanging off my arm getting jelous everytime i even step out the door without him" - maybe they genuinely are in love and don't want to be other people.

For some people having "special friends" isn't an appealing option (I know I've seen it go wrong for too many people to be tempted myself) and would rather go without. It's not the end of the world, it won't fall off/close up or whatever. If you only think your life is fun if you're having sex, that's quite sad really.

Reply 90

olliemccowan

The thing is, you have to remember that there are a lot of sad people who can't even pull a girl, so when they see people who are just having casual sex and not really caring about each other, they get a little irate. That's what I think anyway.

What kind of guy can't even pull a girl? It's all about how low you're willing to go... It's also rather pathetic when you see people who think they're so great because they're having sex...and then you see who they're having sex with... That's like bragging because you know how to walk. It's just a basic human function.

Belittling people because they haven't had sex or not getting any sex is high school level. Most people who aren't having sex are not having sex simply because they have standards which they don't want to lower. A lot of people have sex lives which are a bit better and more evolved than just looking for some hole to stick their schlong in. So while they're looking for something suitable, they wait... pretty simple, no?

These days, with the internet, even the ugliest, saddest guy can find some desperate girl to sleep with.

Reply 91

rosetinted

2

I have to say what a strange set of questions this thread started off with. How can you ask other people if stuff is acceptable? If you're asking about social acceptance of those things then the jury is and always will be out on that one. People are always going to differ in opinion over something like this.

What you need to ask is..do I find it acceptable (whatever 'it' is), will I be putting myself in danger by doing it, am I hurting anyone else by doing it? Only you can know your own boundaries and everybody has theirs in different places.

This stuff can be debated until the cows come home. Sex buddies, relationships, one night stands and many other things are simply personal choices. If you believe that people should have the right to free choice you can't really knock what they end up chosing.

If you believe that you are right and everyone should be made to think like you then go live in a dictatorship and work your way up into the seat of power!!

Reply 92

Lucas

deep down everyone knows shagging lots of people is not a good thing

casual sex is not a good thing

everyone knows it, but just too weak to be different from everyone else in society...no self control and jsut think about personal pleasures

when they later have sex with someone they 'love' it wil have no meaning because they'd **** em even if they didn't love them

Reply 93

Laursy

10

Indeed you would!

god i may as well just sew myself up and say nope i am single sorry im not havinf sex,

yeah right, bit of rough and tumble,slap and tickle never harmd none, well never harmed me,
god some people are really against having a life and some fun!!

Reply 94

ChemistBoy

16

Laursy

god i may as well just sew myself up and say nope i am single sorry im not havinf sex,

yeah right, bit of rough and tumble,slap and tickle never harmd none, well never harmed me,
god some people are really against having a life and some fun!!

Some people aren't able to extend to your level of emotional detachment though.

Reply 95

Laursy

10

Some people aren't able to extend to your level of emotional detachment though

what do you mean by that?

not everyone that has sex with someone they haven't been with for ages is a bad person you know!!

Reply 96

ChemistBoy

16

Laursy

what do you mean by that?

not everyone that has sex with someone they haven't been with for ages is a bad person you know!!

What I mean by that is that sex is not just a physical act for me but an emotional one as well.

Reply 97

zoea85

2

I find the whole concept of funk buddies really sad. The way I see it, it would strip away all the emotion and love, making sex a meaningless act that brings a few minutes of selfish pleasure. People who do do it obviously have no self control and view sex as an physical act, a bit like animals really, and not an emotional one to experience with the right person. Sad.

Reply 98

Loochery

sr4470

Well, some people did actually try to form lasting relationships (although from what I could tell, it was just sex mania - the girls in the building opposite even had a tally).

Yes. The house I live in was previously an all-male house. There's a wooden plinth next to my bed which has a tally marked on it. Twenty-two! Bleugh. It gives me the heebie-jeebies.

Reply 99

willey

4

I agree with most people in that **** buddies are ****.
I personally hate one night stands.
There is nothing better than having sex with someone who you
Connect with both physically and emotionally.

I don’t get turned on by a random shag, doesn’t appeal to me and 9 times out of 10 the sex is absolutely crap!
To be honest I find women who just sleep around and have sex with someone they hardly know or “**** buddies” very off putting and wish that more women have some respect for themselves.

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