Actually, I think I might make this a sticky for a while, seeing as otherwise we'll get loads of these threads. And I need help too! Maybe if people do it something like this:
Gender of other half: male
Age: 19
Likes: computer games, rowing, most films that aren't too girly (but I don't want to just get him a DVD, that's lame), food
Dislikes: Football, Oxford, girly stuff, musicals (dammit!), overly "laddish" stuff.
Budget: £20-30 (plus shirt, see below)
I know I'm getting him a shirt of some kind (it's a long story) but I have to get something else too...preferably something that can be opened in front of his parents.
Actually, shall we make it a condition that in order to ask for help you should suggest something to at least one other person?
Oh, and of course, people can post anonymously if they think they might be spotted...