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Does Love Really Exist???????

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i just one question....

does true love actually exist??

the truth is that i may be in love. there is this girl that i have known for 5 years i think she is amazing in every single way. she ticcks all my boxes and i feel that i could spend the rest of my life with her pretty easily. the problem is that she does not have a clue. i never actually wanted anyone an i was not looking for anyone either but somehow i fallen deeper and deeper in love with her. i do not really belive in love but i think i might be in love. it is like when i am in her presence or talking to her or whatever i get such an amazing high i feel happy when i am around her i want to see her the whole time. it is not even a sexual thing she is amazingly beatiful and i would/could give up anything for her. i just do not know what to do. i do not want to tell her because it will make it weird and she will probably end up thinking i am some kind of idiot. the thing is that with "LOVE" i feel so many emotions i am happy, sad, frustrated and i just want to get over her if you know what i mean?

i used to believe that love is something that we all believe in so we do not feel insecure, but is it possible that you fall in love with someone and they love you to the same extent. i mean i am totally made about her i could talk about her for aaaaaagggggggeeeeesssss and could look at her all day! since "falling in love wiith her" i feel as if i do not need anything and if she becomes mine then my life will be complete. BUT then i wake up and i notice that she is way out of my league, she is a great person she is not into the whole goin out with someone stuff and neither am i. i just do not what to do.

but one thing is for sure the way i feel now i will never forget. i think i could live my whole life on just one moment of being with her. in a few months time we shall go our seperate ways as we leave for university and i am planning on telling her just before we leave. i just am scared of what she will think and i do not think that i could take my heart being broken.

and before i go on and on and on about her. i just want to ask does true love actually exist? and what should i do?

THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!!!1

Reply 1

Angel Interceptor

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yes, true love does exist. :love:

Reply 2

Poica

14

True love is subjective. It's hard to know what it is.
It sounds like you're in love. Good for you. Not the same as loving someone (being in love is somewhat more euphoric than the steady affection of love).

Reply 3

Dekota

Mortimer

blah blah blah blah ...

THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!!!1

Why do people put a 1, after exclamation marks?! :confused:

Reply 4

supercat

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Because they don't hold shift down the entire time. Or because they're being ironic and taking the mickey out of people who don't hold shift down the entire time. In the case of irony, it often also involves words, e.g. "OMGZORS!!1111ELEVEN"

Reply 5

What's Chico Time Precious?

12

V.P. Keys

Why do people put a 1, after exclamation marks?! :confused:

Internet ghetto slang for the word 'one'

e.g : one, two, three = 1, 2, 3 etc....

It's hard to keep up these days with all these new fangled abbreviations. :rolleyes:

Reply 6

**noooni**

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i dont know the answer, i dont know if love exists. But the way that you have just described how you feel about this girl seems like the closest thing to what love is meant to be. Does that make sense?
Tell her how you feel, you just have to, then come back and tell us what happens! :smile:

your story is so lovely - like a novel.

Reply 7

Angel Interceptor

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Poica

True love is subjective. It's hard to know what it is.
It sounds like you're in love. Good for you. Not the same as loving someone (being in love is somewhat more euphoric than the steady affection of love).

that's a very clinical defintion for a couple of the different types of love. :wink:

Reply 8

Poica

14

pratikv

that's a very clinical defintion for a couple of the different types of love. :wink:

I am disgustingly clinical.

Reply 9

Angel Interceptor

11

Poica

I am disgustingly clinical.

lol. just like a cyborg! :wink:

Reply 10

xemilyx

2

i've never experianced what your feeling personally but what your describing is what your parents would probably call love. you sound really happy etc but its unrequited (sp) love and that must be painful. you sound like your amazing friends with this girl of which i think it is safe to say you are in love with her, but (there is always a but :p:

) what have you go to lose by telling her? (stupid question you dont have to answer) im happy for you :smile:

and in answer to the question i do think true love exsits its just different for different people :smile:

Reply 11

~*Sweetness*~

Yes, it does exist. Sometimes you can be so in love that it hurts. I wish I wasn't in love at the moment :frown:

Reply 12

ExitMusic

9

From my experience, almost every girl will vehemently defend that 'love' exists...and I'm no different (erm...apart from I'm not a girl).

Look, I may be a scientist and agnostic.., and realise that biochemically, 'Love' is not really different from eating a whole lot of chocolate, but I do believe that certain people can inspire feelings within you that are so overwhelming (happiness/sadness/desire/lust), that we like to define all these mixed up feelings as 'love'. As anyone will tell you who has/is in love, being in love feels amazing...poets have tried for millenia to describe the associated feelings & emotions...and that's what its all about.

What I'm trying to say is, you may not really accept that love exists until someone you meet inspires these feelings of 'love' in you.

Reply 13

Evenstar

13

Mortimer

...does true love actually exist??

Oh yes it definitely does! :blushing:

Reply 14

stratomaster

no, reproduction does

lol

Reply 15

The Mudman

10

Nope. It's an emotion engineered by bank managers to make us spend more money.

Reply 16

Brown Eyed Girl

Yes.

And untill you stop looking for it and asking if it exists i doubt you'll find it.

Reply 17

xemilyx

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The Mudman

Nope. It's an emotion engineered by bank managers to make us spend more money.

utter rubbish of course it exists! it makes you feel amazing it really is a natural high. dont be so pesimistic

Reply 18

The Mudman

10

I have every right to be pesimistic. Says so right there *shows emily document*
Endorphines are a natural high. They're how I'm going to make my millions. Bottled happiness. MMmmm... Delish!

Reply 19

WaW™

OP

3

Brown Eyed Girl

Yes.

And untill you stop looking for it and asking if it exists i doubt you'll find it.

but that is just it i am not lookin for love. i did not even think it existed until now. and it sucks! i want to tell her but i have everything to loose. you try telling someone that they mean the world to you and you know that the feelings are one-sided :frown:

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