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A friend's relationship

I just want to see if anyone else has experienced the same annoyances:

My friend has recently gotten himself a girlfriend and have been together since end of October. Thing is, she's a total cow and he doesn't know what she wants. For example: Lunch one day (about 300 other people in the hall), she has some kind of problem and he keeps asking her to tell him there and then, and I butted in and said, "for christ's sake tom, can you not see that it's not appropriate to ask your gf to explain something that might be very personal to her in front of 300 people per say??!! He blatantly could not see that fatal flaw...

That's not the only issue here: when they're both together, she treats him really badly i.e. ignores him and always looks like she's about to die *sighs :eek: *, and then they're fine on MSN and on the phone- but there's hardly any romance there at all. It's his first gf so maybe he doesn't want to loose her, and she really needs him as she is so unpopular she won't find anyone else (I have the same problem with this girl who likes me and she's a social outcast and just 'cos I talk to her doesn't mean I fancy her!! I fancy Loob- but shh!). It's a problem as it's the same with him. He's so annoying very often and they are not even private!! I went to stay over there at his house and him and his gf were on the phone for hours!! Yet she won't even let him take a bath with her!! Illogical or what??!!

It's just that i reckon he could do better than this girl. Though he's not taking mine!! lol. Many of my friends, girls and guys, find the same problem, and one of my other friends is going out with this girls' best friend and they are really happy together, and he finds this girl so annoying!! Anyway, you've probably all dosed off now, and I don't really know why I've posted this, thought I should release some frustration- at least they should keep what they do to themselves!!!

Reply 1

rich_
I just want to see if anyone else has experienced the same annoyances:

My friend has recently gotten himself a girlfriend and have been together since end of October. Thing is, she's a total cow and he doesn't know what she wants. For example: Lunch one day (about 300 other people in the hall), she has some kind of problem and he keeps asking her to tell him there and then, and I butted in and said, "for christ's sake tom, can you not see that it's not appropriate to ask your gf to explain something that might be very personal to her in front of 300 people per say??!! He blatantly could not see that fatal flaw...

That's not the only issue here: when they're both together, she treats him really badly i.e. ignores him and always looks like she's about to die *sighs :eek: *, and then they're fine on MSN and on the phone- but there's hardly any romance there at all. It's his first gf so maybe he doesn't want to loose her, and she really needs him as she is so unpopular she won't find anyone else (I have the same problem with this girl who likes me and she's a social outcast and just 'cos I talk to her doesn't mean I fancy her!! I fancy Loob- but shh!). It's a problem as it's the same with him. He's so annoying very often and they are not even private!! I went to stay over there at his house and him and his gf were on the phone for hours!! Yet she won't even let him take a bath with her!! Illogical or what??!!

It's just that i reckon he could do better than this girl. Though he's not taking mine!! lol. Many of my friends, girls and guys, find the same problem, and one of my other friends is going out with this girls' best friend and they are really happy together, and he finds this girl so annoying!! Anyway, you've probably all dosed off now, and I don't really know why I've posted this, thought I should release some frustration- at least they should keep what they do to themselves!!!


wtf. this post in illogical. First you introduce it by saying she's a cow. Then you jump to something which makes HIM look like a nob.
Then you're on about a bath. - How on earth does talking on the phone for hours equate to letting someone in the bath with you?

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oh and how does one look like one's about to die, pray tell?

Reply 2

Fleece
wtf. this post in illogical. First you introduce it by saying she's a cow. Then you jump to something which makes HIM look like a nob.
Then you're on about a bath. - How on earth does talking on the phone for hours equate to letting someone in the bath with you?

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oh and how does one look like one's about to die, pray tell?


Errr, not sure...I said that they were having a bath together, not me. Read it before you make a complaint. It's difficult to explain her composure- but she is so white and thin and always has her hand over her mouth and coughs and whines and all that.

Reply 3

Fleece
wtf. this post in illogical. First you introduce it by saying she's a cow. Then you jump to something which makes HIM look like a nob.
Then you're on about a bath. - How on earth does talking on the phone for hours equate to letting someone in the bath with you?


I'm inclined to agree, it made little sense to me. Also, you say that they should keep what they do to themselves, yet you seem completely happy to discuss their relationship with numerous other people. A teeny bit hypocritical, don't you think?

Reply 4

rich_
Errr, not sure...I said that they were having a bath together, not me. Read it before you make a complaint.


Actually, you said that she won't let him take a bath with her. Now I'm even more confused.

Reply 5

rich_
Errr, not sure...I said that they were having a bath together, not me. Read it before you make a complaint. It's difficult to explain her composure- but she is so white and thin and always has her hand over her mouth and coughs and whines and all that.



errr i meant you as in the general sense..not you personally. Read it before you make a complaint.

So....looking white and thin is grounds for not liking someone's girlfriend. Yeah ok. :rolleyes:

Reply 6

*doses off*

Reply 7

Fleece
errr i meant you as in the general sense..not you personally. Read it before you make a complaint.

So....looking white and thin is grounds for not liking someone's girlfriend. Yeah ok. :rolleyes:


Nooo. I didn't mean it like that- she's nasty to me too.And I'm confused by previous comments, perhaps just ignore the whole thread? I've asked for it to be deleted seeing as I can't do it myself.

Reply 8

:rofl:

Reply 9

Rich so obviously fancies her.

Reply 10

rich_
Nooo. I didn't mean it like that- she's nasty to me too.And I'm confused by previous comments, perhaps just ignore the whole thread? I've asked for it to be deleted seeing as I can't do it myself.


Well you posted that they talk on the phone for hours but she wouldnt let him in the bath with her - and that was somehow illogical. I was merely querying why on earth talking on the phone for hours would equate to letting someone in the bath?

Reply 11

rich_
I just want to see if anyone else has experienced the same annoyances:

My friend has recently gotten himself a girlfriend and have been together since end of October. Thing is, she's a total cow and he doesn't know what she wants. For example: Lunch one day (about 300 other people in the hall), she has some kind of problem and he keeps asking her to tell him there and then, and I butted in and said, "for christ's sake tom, can you not see that it's not appropriate to ask your gf to explain something that might be very personal to her in front of 300 people per say??!! He blatantly could not see that fatal flaw...

That's not the only issue here: when they're both together, she treats him really badly i.e. ignores him and always looks like she's about to die *sighs :eek: *, and then they're fine on MSN and on the phone- but there's hardly any romance there at all. It's his first gf so maybe he doesn't want to loose her, and she really needs him as she is so unpopular she won't find anyone else (I have the same problem with this girl who likes me and she's a social outcast and just 'cos I talk to her doesn't mean I fancy her!! I fancy Loob- but shh!). It's a problem as it's the same with him. He's so annoying very often and they are not even private!! I went to stay over there at his house and him and his gf were on the phone for hours!! Yet she won't even let him take a bath with her!! Illogical or what??!!

It's just that i reckon he could do better than this girl. Though he's not taking mine!! lol. Many of my friends, girls and guys, find the same problem, and one of my other friends is going out with this girls' best friend and they are really happy together, and he finds this girl so annoying!! Anyway, you've probably all dosed off now, and I don't really know why I've posted this, thought I should release some frustration- at least they should keep what they do to themselves!!!


So she's annoying because she's unpopular, pale, thin and coughs with her hand over her mouth... ok.... and won't take a bath with this guy..... ermm..:s:

Reply 12

Anonymous
So she's annoying because she's unpopular, pale, thin and coughs with her hand over her mouth... ok.... and won't take a bath with this guy..... ermm..:s:

I'd rep you for that if I could...ha ha - what are you on about, rich??

Reply 13

Poica
I'd rep you for that if I could...ha ha - what are you on about, rich??


I'd ask myself the same question- a few moments of insanity best fit the explanation. I've asked for the thread to be deleted. Whether it will, is another matter :eek: .

Reply 14

rich_
I'd ask myself the same question- a few moments of insanity best fit the explanation. I've asked for the thread to be deleted. Whether it will, is another matter :eek: .


Hehe, fair enough mate! You gave me a giggle anyway! :biggrin:

Reply 15

Poica
Hehe, fair enough mate! You gave me a giggle anyway! :biggrin:


Hehe, why thank you. Perhaps your giggle could form itself into something nicely useful and well recieved like some nice sparkly snazzy green coloured gems that go very nice above my country flag?? *crosses fingers* :biggrin: