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Love

How can I tell someone
1) I dont want to sleep with them
2) I dont love them
3) I never have done

In a nice way.

Reply 1

Wineblood

I think that whatever you say, they'll take it the same way and end up hurt.

Reply 2

meathead1987

Have u told them you love them before? and if so why?

Reply 3

Nope, i never told them I loved them.

Reply 4

meathead1987

Then they have no reason to think that. Just tell them(I hope this is singular) you are not ready to have sex with them. How long have u been together?

Reply 5

Thats the best thing - we aren't together.
And yes, it is a singular.

Reply 6

meathead1987

So why would they assume you love them and would have sex with them?

Reply 7

meathead1987

So why would they assume you love them and would have sex with them?

Not a clue
Well, she is an ex - but we werent serious at the time.

Reply 8

meathead1987

Well you just have to tell her straight then. There is no need to say u never loved her, but just tell her you arent interested anymore and that you have moved on and hope she can do the same.