How can I tell someone
1) I dont want to sleep with them
2) I dont love them
3) I never have done
In a nice way.
I think that whatever you say, they'll take it the same way and end up hurt.
Have u told them you love them before? and if so why?
Nope, i never told them I loved them.
Then they have no reason to think that. Just tell them(I hope this is singular) you are not ready to have sex with them. How long have u been together?
Thats the best thing - we aren't together.
And yes, it is a singular.
So why would they assume you love them and would have sex with them?
Well you just have to tell her straight then. There is no need to say u never loved her, but just tell her you arent interested anymore and that you have moved on and hope she can do the same.