Sooo ive been with my bf nearly three years. He's always been a bit of a cyber addict, gaming, porn, blogs, webcomics, youtube page etc
He also used to be quite big into networking sites such as tagged/ faces and loved to comment on girls pics.
Anway a month or so ago despite being highly anti- male grooming he trimmed his pubes, he said he did it because he was bored. I thought it was a little odd considering I have never asked or indicated i wanted him to do that (ive asked him to shave his beard he wont do that!) . Anyway the feeling of concern faded.
Today i was speaking to him on the phone (we're in a long distance relationship) and he told me how hed shaved his balls. I asked why, and he was like, erm see what its like, you may like it ... (i wont be seeing him for another 3weeks!). This seemed suprisingly odd to me considering he has a bit of a balls being touched phobia, if he doesnt want any contact with his testicals why would he shave them for me.
It starts making me concerned that perhaps he is masturbating on web cam and this explains all th pubic grooming. The concern wouldnt be as great if i hadnt caught him lying about his chatroom use in the past. He started using this chatroom chatterbox to 'promote his music' he later told me it was rubbish and people were only interested in dating/cyber sex. I also had used chatterbbox in the past and new what he meant and as concerned about him using it, so he said he deleted it. Anyway i wasnt sure so i logged into my old account and looked at his profile (which tells you when you log in) he had lied about deleting his account and had been using it recently. Chatterbow seems to be mainly made up of people wanting you to upload webcam, get your tits/ cock out....
Is he cheating!??? How can i find out!???