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I'm in looooove. and I don't think he even knows I exist. Gahhhh I hate feeling like this! But i love him soooo much! Anyone else ever felt this way? Any advice? :frown:

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Reply 1

is it your boyfriend or someone you fancy surely you can just talk to him!!

and tell him how you feel

Reply 2

The only advice that I can give is that you've got to talk to him. Let him know that you exist! Have you even spoken to him properly before?

Reply 3

Yeah, talk to him, but DON'T tell a complete stranger youre in love with him! Anyway, its probably just a crush, you cant actually be in love with someone you've never even spoken to.

Reply 4

Yes, I have....I know him quite well, we're ok friends...but he's so popular, I don't think he can know how I feel about him. So depressed about this at the moment, I'm too embarassed to tell him as he probably doesn't feel the same and he and his friends will laugh at me for being in love with him :frown:

Reply 5

Yeah, talk to him, but DON'T tell a complete stranger youre in love with him! Anyway, its probably just a crush, you cant actually be in love with someone you've never even spoken to.


I have spoken to him, and i'm fairly sure I do love him - i get butterflies whenever he smiles at me and I feel miserable whenever I don't see him :frown::frown: I've known him for 6 months :frown::frown::frown:

Reply 6

I take you know each other from school? I don't want to sound patronising but everyone goes through this when they're at school. I remember thinking that I was in love about four times in one year. Maybe just concentrate on being friends for now, you never know, something may develop from there or you may realise that your feelings aren't really as strong as you thought.
I know how you feel though, it's a really horrible feeling. I hope you feel better about it soon. :smile:

Reply 7

Oh right, the whole ''he doesnt know I exist'' thing implied yo'd never spoken. Just chat with him, flirt, see how things go, you never know unless you try

Reply 8

Laursy
is it your boyfriend


I should hope not, if she says he doesn't know she exists....

Reply 9

If u have spoken to him, then he does know that u exist! U say he smiles at u, surely that means he likes u (maybe not in d same way u like him). My advice will be, let him know how u feel!

Reply 10

Anonymous
I'm in looooove. and I don't think he even knows I exist. Gahhhh I hate feeling like this! But i love him soooo much! Anyone else ever felt this way? Any advice? :frown:


no.
no one else has ever felt this way.

frigging ******.

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Anonymous
I have spoken to him, and i'm fairly sure I do love him - i get butterflies whenever he smiles at me and I feel miserable whenever I don't see him :frown::frown: I've known him for 6 months :frown::frown::frown:


thats called a crush dear.

Reply 11

I'm sorry i sound so pathetic, but I really love him, I just haven't got the courage to tell him! And sorry notts if u think I'm being pathetic - you didn't have to reply if you think i'm just being silly. soz for wastin ppls time

Reply 12

wite him a note declaring your undying love for him? *yawns*

Reply 13

Anonymous
I'm sorry i sound so pathetic, but I really love him, I just haven't got the courage to tell him! And sorry notts if u think I'm being pathetic - you didn't have to reply if you think i'm just being silly. soz for wastin ppls time


1. you dont love him.
2. everyone has been over stuff like this hundreds of times.
3. most likely you wont do anything about it and just pine over him for a while, until the next guy comes along.

i didnt ask anyone out till i was 17.


compared to the threads about miscarriages and brain cancer, or even about more serious relationships, this is a joke.

Reply 14

heh, there was this guy I had the most mahoosive crush on a few years ago, I wrote a note telling him so! I didnt see him much after that....

Reply 15

leona
heh, there was this guy I had the most mahoosive crush on a few years ago, I wrote a note telling him so! I didnt see him much after that....


I'm loving your choice of words :biggrin:

Reply 16

compared to the threads about miscarriages and brain cancer, or even about more serious relationships, this is a joke.


I think I realise there are far worse things in the world than this - however, this is the H&R forum and people come on here for advice about problems / upsetting issues or whatever. I'm really depressed over this, I do love him despite what you may think, and if you haven't got any helpful advice for how I can approach this guy (as it's gonna be impossible for me to get over him unless i know he's definitely 100% not interested) , then please just don't bother telling me this is a stupid crush and I shouldn't be wasting your time with silly little problems.

and have a nice day! :smile:

Reply 17

heh, there was this guy I had the most mahoosive crush on a few years ago, I wrote a note telling him so! I didnt see him much after that....


Were you friends with him?

Reply 18

Anonymous
I think I realise there are far worse things in the world than this - however, this is the H&R forum and people come on here for advice about problems / upsetting issues or whatever. I'm really depressed over this, I do love him despite what you may think, and if you haven't got any helpful advice for how I can approach this guy (as it's gonna be impossible for me to get over him unless i know he's definitely 100% not interested) , then please just don't bother telling me this is a stupid crush and I shouldn't be wasting your time with silly little problems.

and have a nice day! :smile:


your insistence that you love him is comical at best and damn right stupid at worst.

have a nice day.

how do you know hes 100% interested? ****ing ask him. it isnt rocket science.

Reply 19

your insistence that you love him is comical at best and damn right stupid at worst.


What makes you think I don't?

how do you know hes 100% interested? ****ing ask him. it isnt rocket science.


I don't think he's interested - that's the point. and ask him what?!!!!!:frown: