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Now I was under the impression this just happens to me, but then I met a guy last night who has EXACTLY the same thing happening to him.

You get a number off a girl, they want to see you ...you give them every opportunity to say no but they don't ...and then they go and ignore your text lol!

Now that is fine, but then I was always under the impression that if a girl gives you her no. then she is at the least 'a little interested on some level'! To cap it all off, its when you then see them out, leave them alone and they're sat their looking at you all night ...you make eye contact, and then its u who's made to feel like you've got the issues!!!

Girls ...what the hell are you doing / thinking ...cos I'm stumped if us men know!

MJ
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why dont you call the girl instead of txtn her?

tbh, if they are sat there looking at you but didnt reply to ur txt, it means they dont fancy you but are making eyes at you cos they kno you want them. its an ego thing.
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Now I was under the impression this just happens to me, but then I met a guy last night who has EXACTLY the same thing happening to him.

You get a number off a girl, they want to see you ...you give them every opportunity to say no but they don't ...and then they go and ignore your text lol!

Now that is fine, but then I was always under the impression that if a girl gives you her no. then she is at the least 'a little interested on some level'! To cap it all off, its when you then see them out, leave them alone and they're sat their looking at you all night ...you make eye contact, and then its u who's made to feel like you've got the issues!!!

Girls ...what the hell are you doing / thinking ...cos I'm stumped if us men know!

MJ
Maybe she was pissed and didn't know she had given you her number or maybe she thought it was the only way to get you off her back. Hey I am female and I dont understand me.
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lol

i know what you mean, but i really make it so easy for a woman to turn me down if they don't fancy it ...but when they are like kissing you on the lips, flirting etc ...it's all very weird. I mean its not like i start off all heavy, you know its fancy lunch sometime?

i agree on the ego thing mind, but then it makes zero sense to me ...and i'm not alone on this. All it achieves is make the guy feel uncomfortable and from their its a downward spiral

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lol

i know what you mean, but i really make it so easy for a woman to turn me down if they don't fancy it ...but when they are like kissing you on the lips, flirting etc ...it's all very weird. I mean its not like i start off all heavy, you know its fancy lunch sometime?

i agree on the ego thing mind, but then it makes zero sense to me ...and i'm not alone on this. All it achieves is make the guy feel uncomfortable and from their its a downward spiral

J
Hunny women aren't supposed to make sense. Maybe you are too relaxed and not pushy enough. You know the whole go for lunch thing is a bit boring.
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Hunny women aren't supposed to make sense. Maybe you are too relaxed and not pushy enough. You know the whole go for lunch thing is a bit boring.
Lol ...see this is where women make absolutely no sense whatsoever ...If I'm pushy, then thats gonna come off all needy and desperate ...which is never a good thing.

Women ...you don't even know what u want yourselves ...what chance have us poor sods got!

J
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You get a number off a girl, they want to see you ...you give them every opportunity to say no but they don't ...and then they go and ignore your text lol!

Now that is fine, but then I was always under the impression that if a girl gives you her no. then she is at the least 'a little interested on some level'!
You see, you're not making sense yourself. You say that if a girl says no to seeing you, it means that she is "" at the least 'a little interested on some level'! ""

Why, because she got off with you?*

It really doesn't make sense. Maybe your logic unit needs replacing. :P

*Damn I mis-read your post! Let me rethink this...hmm no, I'm still not sure what you mean by 'at least a bit interested.' *shrugs*
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well maybe they were interested at the time but sobered up and had beer goggles on or somat (no offence intended cos id never ignore a text meself)
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well maybe they were interested at the time but sobered up and had beer goggles on or somat (no offence intended cos id never ignore a text meself)
I wouldn't ignore a text either, even if it was to reply with some lame excuse, a guy still deserves acknowledgement of his existence.

But on the other hand when I'm drunk or in party mode I will flirt or give out my number and then regret it later. Girls sometimes just do it to be nice or because they don't know how to say no without looking like a biatch.
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er soz, don't think she was smashed ...fairly early on in the night and we know each other reasonably well ...so not like a random pull in a club.

Ultimately, the best thing I can do is nothing ...I know that, but still doesn;t answer my rant above. womens logic is completely unfathomable ...whatever the intended logic is supposed to be in the first place!

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Girls sometimes just do it to be nice or because they don't know how to say no without looking like a biatch.
There lies your answer methinks
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'understanding the female mind'

- hahahaha! something you will never understand.
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You see, you're not making sense yourself. You say that if a girl says no to seeing you, it means that she is "" at the least 'a little interested on some level'! ""

Why, because she got off with you?*

It really doesn't make sense. Maybe your logic unit needs replacing. :P

*Damn I mis-read your post! Let me rethink this...hmm no, I'm still not sure what you mean by 'at least a bit interested.' *shrugs*
Not sure if you realised that by no., he meant number.... :confused: Is that the bit you mis-read or was that another bit?
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woman's mind = chocolate + PMT.

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woman's mind = chocolate + PMT.

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incorrect.
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(Original post by swazzle2000)
incorrect.
(Original post by swazzle2000)
incorrect.
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what?

a female mind isn't chocolate and pmt.

ppth.
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Now I was under the impression this just happens to me, but then I met a guy last night who has EXACTLY the same thing happening to him.

You get a number off a girl, they want to see you ...you give them every opportunity to say no but they don't ...and then they go and ignore your text lol!

Now that is fine, but then I was always under the impression that if a girl gives you her no. then she is at the least 'a little interested on some level'! To cap it all off, its when you then see them out, leave them alone and they're sat their looking at you all night ...you make eye contact, and then its u who's made to feel like you've got the issues!!!

Girls ...what the hell are you doing / thinking ...cos I'm stumped if us men know!

MJ
Awww... im a girl and i wouldnt do that. Im nice and simple! I dont see the point in playing games.. such a waste of time!!
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Men are worse: who tells a girl she's beautiful & tells everyone she knows that he's her boyfriend and yet within 24 hours calls her to say he doesn't want her and NEVER wants to see her again? My best friend had that happen to her last year! Ah well, she's happy with someone else now (who honestly thinks she's something special).
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(Original post by swazzle2000)
incorrect.
lol i think you'll find he was correct :p:
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