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After work I love placing my head on my girlfriends lap? Why is that wrong?
My mates keep telling me not to do that, because it’s weak or a p*ssy thing for a man to do. Do you (especially the ladies) agree? Because me personally I love coming home after a tiring day and just placing my head in her lap and let her stroke my hair... I find it deeply relaxing.LOL
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Because its like she is taking care of you.
Dominant over you.
and yes it is a
Dominant over you.
and yes it is a
Original post by medkid
weak or a p*ssy thing for a man to do.
Mummy's boy?
Original post by Planar
I found it relaxing
do it then. and next time they call you out fr being a pussy assert your dominance and manliness over them by beating them up. obvious solution is obvious
I think it's cute, and personally I'd see it as a chance to "look after" my boyfriend and make a fuss over him and care for him. Your mates are probably jealous that you have a girlfriend you trust enough to relax around.
man up mate, tell her to go make you a sandwich instead
nice friends you have there too, sound like right plonks.
nice friends you have there too, sound like right plonks.
Original post by Goody2Shoes-x
I think it's cute, and personally I'd see it as a chance to "look after" my boyfriend and make a fuss over him and care for him. Your mates are probably jealous that you have a girlfriend you trust enough to relax around.
I agree... I think it's really sweet when a guy likes that kind of thing, and I've gotta admit, I like making a fuss of my boyfriend and being affectionate in that kind of way toward him. I can't stand guys who do the macho crap and display no signs of intimacy/ affection, it's so outdated and pathetic. I like having a guy I can take care of as well as him taking care of me.
Original post by medkid
My mates keep telling me not to do that, because it’s weak or a p*ssy thing for a man to do. Do you (especially the ladies) agree? Because me personally I love coming home after a tiring day and just placing my head in her lap and let her stroke my hair... I find it deeply relaxing.LOL
Stop basing your opinions on what your mates tell you.
They may say your weak as pussy **** or whatever, but that means one of three things;
1. they enjoy punching their girlfriends instead of being stroked by them, are generally pathetic misogynists.
Find better friends
2. they are deeply jealous of you, because their girlfriends wont do that to them/dont have a girlfriend (probably have emotional problems associated with the chips on their shoulders) and are just going along with it not to look weak.
Come into School/6thForm/College/Uni/work with really ruffled hair, ask them if they are mad, bro?
3. They are just pulling your leg because they know how easily influenced you are
Tell them to **** off
or tell a them a really tall tale... my imagination is not firing ATM(edited 13 years ago)
I wrote poetry for a girl I fancied through msn once, you know what she did? She logged off. It wasn't even bad, it was pretty brilliant.. took a few hours to write.
What does that say? Women don't want you being affectionate or using your head, they just want a bag of muscles and some balls to bounce on. Stop it mate. You'll end up getting hurt.
What does that say? Women don't want you being affectionate or using your head, they just want a bag of muscles and some balls to bounce on. Stop it mate. You'll end up getting hurt.
I don't see the problem in it. Sometimes I'll rest my head on my girlfriends shoulder, sometimes hers on mine. It's not as if you cannot be affectionate towards each other.
But..I wouldn't exactly be discuss the fact I rested my head on my girlfriends lap and she stroked my hair anyway...because I don't really discuss the inner workings of relationships, and most people don't, since others usually find it an annoying/awkward line of conversation.
But..I wouldn't exactly be discuss the fact I rested my head on my girlfriends lap and she stroked my hair anyway...because I don't really discuss the inner workings of relationships, and most people don't, since others usually find it an annoying/awkward line of conversation.
I don't agree with that. If it relaxes you, then just go with it
I loved it when my boyfriend did that, if you like it then do it!
Seriously OP who cares what other people say?? Putting your head on your gf's lap doesn't damage his credibiltiy as a male.
Seriously OP who cares what other people say?? Putting your head on your gf's lap doesn't damage his credibiltiy as a male.
do whatever the **** you want, who cares what your friends think
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