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why is it when you try to dance with a girl in a club, after 2 mins of dancing her friends just drags her somewhere or she goes away.it is so annoying. i m not trying to lap dance. just trying to join them and they go away. 
is there any better tactic?
is there any better tactic?
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wazzup
why is it when you try to dance with a girl in a club, after 2 mins of dancing her friends just drags her somewhere or she goes away.it is so annoying. i m not trying to lap dance. just trying to join them and they go away.
is there any better tactic?
is there any better tactic?
If i'm out with my girl friends for a night out i get really annoyed when guys come over and just try and dance up against us...we're out with each other and are fine by ourselves! Maybe try talking to people instead??
Reply 2
maybe they feel like they don't really want to dance with you, so the friend dragged her away... Or maybe they thought you were someone else they didn't like.
Reply 3
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why? they dont even know me.arent clubs supposed to be places where u socialise and pull girls?i m not bad looking.i dont understand why.i cant rly talk to them, because of the loud music.what should i do?
Anonymous
maybe they feel like they don't really want to dance with you, so the friend dragged her away... Or maybe they thought you were someone else they didn't like.
why? they dont even know me.arent clubs supposed to be places where u socialise and pull girls?i m not bad looking.i dont understand why.i cant rly talk to them, because of the loud music.what should i do?
Reply 4
It really hacks me off when a guy just starts dancing....I'm not saying you are one of them but 99% of guys are just trying to get off with you and I think it's downright rude just to assume it's OK to join a girl in dancing without even talking to her.
Reply 5
wazzup
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cherrychocolate
It really hacks me off when a guy just starts dancing....I'm not saying you are one of them but 99% of guys are just trying to get off with you and I think it's downright rude just to assume it's OK to join a girl in dancing without even talking to her.
i even ask a girl if i can dance near her.she goes yes i can.but then she just goes away.
Reply 6
Most of the time, if a guy starts dancing at me without even saying hi or waving or even frickin smiling at me beforehand, I'll think he's a perv. The worst is when a guy just comes up behind you and then when you notice it makes you jump. Ugh.
wazzup
i even ask a girl if i can dance near her.she goes yes i can.but then she just goes away.
Maybe she doesn't want to sound rude and say no?
Pathetic as it sounds, if a guy starts dancing with me and I don't want him to, I'll probably dance a little bit to start with and then subtly drift away...it just feels less confrontational than telling him to leave me alone!
Reply 8
With all the date rape drug business going on, they should be precautious.
Reply 9
I don't like it when random boys dance with me out of nowhere, even if I was single. I'd much rather someone tried talking (nicely) to me at the bar or something..
Dancing with a guy tells me nothing about his character, except that they might be forward and perhaps a bit too "keen" if you get my drift, and I find that intimidating and just back off!
Dancing with a guy tells me nothing about his character, except that they might be forward and perhaps a bit too "keen" if you get my drift, and I find that intimidating and just back off!
Reply 10
wazzup
why is it when you try to dance with a girl in a club, after 2 mins of dancing her friends just drags her somewhere or she goes away.it is so annoying. i m not trying to lap dance. just trying to join them and they go away.
is there any better tactic?
is there any better tactic?
Introduce yourself first instead of just butting in to their dancing. You wouldn't but into someone's conversation in the pub unannounced. It's the same deal.
Reply 11
Crikey, girls are just too much sometimes. I feel sorry for straight guys, they really can't win, and the most vulnerable guys get hurt the most.
Reply 12
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homoterror
Crikey, girls are just too much sometimes. I feel sorry for straight guys, they really can't win, and the most vulnerable guys get hurt the most.
?????u r gay?
Too much?
Too much is a bloke sidling up to you before dancing in a way that's more like the pet dog humping your leg.
The OP did say that he asks, but that's it. You can't expect a girl out with her friends to dance for that long if she doesn't even know his name. Especially if she's uncomfortable with how he's dancing with her after she's said he can dance.
Too much is a bloke sidling up to you before dancing in a way that's more like the pet dog humping your leg.
The OP did say that he asks, but that's it. You can't expect a girl out with her friends to dance for that long if she doesn't even know his name. Especially if she's uncomfortable with how he's dancing with her after she's said he can dance.
dogtanian
Too much?
Too much is a bloke sidling up to you before dancing in a way that's more like the pet dog humping your dog.
The OP did say that he asks, but that's it. You can't expect a girl out with her friends to dance for that long if she doesn't even know his name. Especially if she's uncomfortable with how he's dancing with her after she's said he can dance.
Too much is a bloke sidling up to you before dancing in a way that's more like the pet dog humping your dog.
The OP did say that he asks, but that's it. You can't expect a girl out with her friends to dance for that long if she doesn't even know his name. Especially if she's uncomfortable with how he's dancing with her after she's said he can dance.
I totally agree
I always wonder what makes some men think they can just start dancing with you and that you'll join in. Since the majority barely even introduce themselves, how do they know whether or not your boyfriend is at the bar, or whether you're gay, or whether you just plain think he's an ass?!
Its because more often than not (unless the girl is out on the pull) its just not that nice to have a guy so blatantly trying to get it on with you. Not saying thats what you're doing but thats what its usually perceived ur doing.
I push away any guy that tries to dance with me - its just not nice im out there to have fun not grind with a randomer
Maybe best approach if you want to get to know someone is chat to someone sitting down and maybe then ask them to dance? Having said that, I would still be skeptical about anything like this but hey at least ud be trying to get to know them!
Generally clubs arent the best places to get to know new people.
I push away any guy that tries to dance with me - its just not nice im out there to have fun not grind with a randomer
Maybe best approach if you want to get to know someone is chat to someone sitting down and maybe then ask them to dance? Having said that, I would still be skeptical about anything like this but hey at least ud be trying to get to know them!
Generally clubs arent the best places to get to know new people.
He doesnt want to get to know anybody he wants to pull. If i had a girlfriend i wouldnt bother going to clubs, dancing with the same sex sucks ass, well dancing sucks ass full stop and only has 1 use. Is he just supposed 2 guess if a girl has a boyfriend or if shes not interested? I don't get it? I guess girls should just make the first move to be safe.
aww i hate it when some werido grabs me it happend last time i went to a club this right freak just grabbed my arm twice as i was walking around i pushed him off me the first time into a wall, and told him to beat it, then the next time he goes ' oh i love you' i said grow up you werido and pushed him into a crowd of people who all started pushing him as well,
i hate randomers in clubs, esp the puking kind one spewed on my leg once!! eww and i hate sick!!
i hate randomers in clubs, esp the puking kind one spewed on my leg once!! eww and i hate sick!!
Reply 18
Asking a girl if you can dance next to her is a bit weird...most girls won't want to say 'no' as it appears rude and it's not as if it's her dance floor to choose who dances where etc... just smile at a girl first and if she reciprocates then take that as a signal...i prefer guys to at least introduce themselves first though.
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