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How to Determine if a man is Gay?

Firstly, let me start off by saying this thread is, in NO way might to cause offence to anything out there.

Right, well the story is this, I have this male friend, who everyone (about 50 of us) think he is gay or at least questioning.

He’s had one relationship with a girl (my best friend) in which he proposed to her after a week, and starting talking about moving in and having children asap. (which would have been ok, apart from the fact he’s only 17) Needless to say my friend (16 at the time) freaked out and dumped him.

He has a gay ‘charm’ around him, and has such as female sounding voice, he always sings in public a lot, and uses a lot of really ‘girly’ words.

He also keeps making all his male friends get into there boxers whenever they stay over at his (his excuse is, they eat too much food, and need to strip down to just thrr boxers, as it’s more conformable because they are so full) he also makes them sleep in the same single bed (not top to tail, side by side)

So anyway, my question is, How do you Determine if someone is gay? Is there any hints or things to watch out for?

Thanks for all your help

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Reply 1
If he is snogging a guy, then he's probably gay. Otherwise, there is no real way to tell.
Reply 2
if he fingers his asshole i assume he's gay...
Reply 3
Hayley_2k4
So anyway, my question is, How do you Determine if someone is gay? Is there any hints or things to watch out for?

Thanks for all your help


Flirt with the gay person. if they respond in a friendly and accepted way, that usually means they are gay! Watch their gestures and movements.

The stereotypical gay; Guy has his ear pierced, always spikes his hair, wears chain necklaces, and has piercings around his eyes or mouth.

Or just ask them if they are gay!
Reply 4
Trial by water
Reply 5
Masta Killa
if he fingers his asshole i assume he's gay...


Why?
Reply 6
because ''poofs'' like things up there asshole...
Reply 7
Masta Killa
because ''poofs'' like things up there asshole...


:rolleyes: Not only...the G spot is there and some guys do role reversal with their girlfriends - it happens.
Reply 8
Masta Killa
because ''poofs'' like things up there asshole...


:rolleyes: Not only. There is a G spot there. Some guys do role reversal with their girlfriends -it does happen.
Reply 9
^i see you talk from experience?
Do a honeytrap!
Hayley_2k4
Firstly, let me start off by saying this thread is, in NO way might to cause offence to anything out there.

Right, well the story is this, I have this male friend, who everyone (about 50 of us) think he is gay or at least questioning.

He’s had one relationship with a girl (my best friend) in which he proposed to her after a week, and starting talking about moving in and having children asap. (which would have been ok, apart from the fact he’s only 17) Needless to say my friend (16 at the time) freaked out and dumped him.

He has a gay ‘charm’ around him, and has such as female sounding voice, he always sings in public a lot, and uses a lot of really ‘girly’ words.

He also keeps making all his male friends get into there boxers whenever they stay over at his (his excuse is, they eat too much food, and need to strip down to just thrr boxers, as it’s more conformable because they are so full) he also makes them sleep in the same single bed (not top to tail, side by side)

So anyway, my question is, How do you Determine if someone is gay? Is there any hints or things to watch out for?

Thanks for all your help


Really the only way of determining if someone is gay is if they tell you(even untrue sometimes) or if you see them engaging in homosexual activity.
Reply 12
Either this is the most homophobic thread I've ever seen or the irony is lost on me.

But yeah if you're friends with him, just get him on his own an either ask him or try to stick your tongue down his throat, either way you will find out.
Reply 13
Masta Killa
^i see you talk from experience?


How do you see that?
Reply 14
Just say are you a poof?
one does not know...:frown:
Reply 16
Oh come on - it's never that hard to tell. There are always classic tell tale sings.

And it doesn't take one to know one, I think most people are good at spotting it.
Reply 17
You can't determine if someone's gay..
Reply 18
Hayley_2k4
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So anyway, my question is, How do you Determine if someone is gay? Is there any hints or things to watch out for?

Thanks for all your help


Yes.

Someone is a batty man if they have a camp voice, walk with a limped wrist, act in an effeminate manner, like ABBA, or if pink is their favourite colour. :rolleyes:
Reply 19
red_roadkill
Oh come on - it's never that hard to tell. There are always classic tell tale sings.

And it doesn't take one to know one, I think most people are good at spotting it.


That's just stereotyping and pigeon holing people though.