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    (Original post by Katia)
    You can't determine if someone's gay..
    I think that if you genuinely think someone is gay (and not just a bit poofy), then 95% of the time then you will be right, the person is gay. But I think there are some people who are gay, that just don't show up on anyone's gaydar (such a ghey word, lol).
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    There are always classic tell tale sings.
    Such as?
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    There are always classic tell tale sings.
    Such as?
    Walking in while he's having sex with another man is a fairly obvious one.

    Anyway, there is always the possibility that the guy himself is confused about his sexuality.
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    (Original post by Hayley_2k4)
    Firstly, let me start off by saying this thread is, in NO way might to cause offence to anything out there.

    Right, well the story is this, I have this male friend, who everyone (about 50 of us) think he is gay or at least questioning.

    He’s had one relationship with a girl (my best friend) in which he proposed to her after a week, and starting talking about moving in and having children asap. (which would have been ok, apart from the fact he’s only 17) Needless to say my friend (16 at the time) freaked out and dumped him.

    He has a gay ‘charm’ around him, and has such as female sounding voice, he always sings in public a lot, and uses a lot of really ‘girly’ words.

    He also keeps making all his male friends get into there boxers whenever they stay over at his (his excuse is, they eat too much food, and need to strip down to just thrr boxers, as it’s more conformable because they are so full) he also makes them sleep in the same single bed (not top to tail, side by side)

    So anyway, my question is, How do you Determine if someone is gay? Is there any hints or things to watch out for?

    Thanks for all your help
    maybe when he starts to heck out the men when you go out. there are no real hints or tips i think. and your whole assumption is based on him proposing to your mate, maybe you are trying to see him as a gay man when he could actually be a decent guy.
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    He sounds gay - may not be, but the behaviour you've described is certainly fairly homoerotic.
    Needless to say there are plenty of gay men who don't act it, so maybe the reverse is true.
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    (Original post by Katia)
    That's just stereotyping and pigeon holing people though.
    Cut all the PC crap - sometimes stereotyping works. Stereotypes are there for a reason!
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    Someone can be very camp and totally straight.

    If you want to know..ask. It's the only way to be sure. Why does the OP + friends care so much if this guy is gay or not?
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    (Original post by Hayley_2k4)
    Firstly, let me start off by saying this thread is, in NO way might to cause offence to anything out there.

    Right, well the story is this, I have this male friend, who everyone (about 50 of us) think he is gay or at least questioning.

    He’s had one relationship with a girl (my best friend) in which he proposed to her after a week, and starting talking about moving in and having children asap. (which would have been ok, apart from the fact he’s only 17) Needless to say my friend (16 at the time) freaked out and dumped him.

    He has a gay ‘charm’ around him, and has such as female sounding voice, he always sings in public a lot, and uses a lot of really ‘girly’ words.

    He also keeps making all his male friends get into there boxers whenever they stay over at his (his excuse is, they eat too much food, and need to strip down to just thrr boxers, as it’s more conformable because they are so full) he also makes them sleep in the same single bed (not top to tail, side by side)

    So anyway, my question is, How do you Determine if someone is gay? Is there any hints or things to watch out for?

    Thanks for all your help
    yea...sounds like a bufter to me. out him
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    Why does the OP + friends care so much if this guy is gay or not?
    That's what I thought.

    If he's your friend, then why not accept his gayness, if it exists?
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    (Original post by Hayley_2k4)

    He also keeps making all his male friends get into there boxers whenever they stay over at his (his excuse is, they eat too much food, and need to strip down to just thrr boxers, as it’s more conformable because they are so full) he also makes them sleep in the same single bed (not top to tail, side by side)
    now i dont think any of my mates could make me to anything let alone that lol
    you make him souind like a right perverted slezy guy

    maybe hes just feminine >? :eek:
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    if he puts his **** in another guys *******, then he is probably gay.
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    Really, why does it matter? He's the one who has to come out and he is probably just trying to deal with what "label" he identifies with. There is no point in forcing the matter cos its a v personal thing to deal with. He will come out in due time if he is, and you will al have to go, we knew that, tell us something we dont know!!
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    You know someone is gay if you go to a party at his spotless apartment and everything is white, there is Justin T on the stereo, baby carrots for snacks, and a caulliflower on the kitchen side.

    With straight guys, there would be congealing pizza, porn, and super nintendo games all over the place.
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    Pah! "Ask"?

    The guy went out with a girl and proposed - either he's straight or he's in a **** load of denial so you'll just have to forget about it and wait - surely he's your friend whatever, and his sexuality is secondary.
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    Or maybe he is a bisexual, that will solve all the mystery all together!
 
 
 
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