This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- My bf went to a party where his ex was
- Relationship stress
- Stereotype men with kids
- Gf broke up with me - should I fly over?
- weird toxic ex bf vent ??
- is it weird to be single
- BF shared TMI with friends?!
- girls have you ever thought a chubby guy is actually attractive?
- I need help. I'm confused and sad and maybe some others advice and opinions can help?
- What would you do
- HELP: I wrote an acknowledgement to my ex, and scared my current bf will dump me
- Bf’s mom not including me in family events
- My boyfriend dumped me over these reasons
- girlfriend trust issues
- Help
- Family don’t like my gf what to do
- Was he cheating on me? I need peace of mind..
- What is the difference between relationship status?
- My bf is really insecure
- Night out
Your bf/gf's ex
Is it normal to want to look at your girlfriend's or boyfriend's ex's, as in to see photos of them and to see what they look like? I guess in a comparison way it's interesting...kinda...hmm?
Scroll to see replies
I wouldn't say it's abnormal...I always ask about them/to see pics
For me it's purely curiousity (and if they're super hot then you know to keep your partner away from them lol)
For me it's purely curiousity (and if they're super hot then you know to keep your partner away from them lol)
Yep, I'm the same.......My boyfriend's ex has a myspace site and I sometimes find myself looking at that even though I don't know her. I guess I just wanna see if she's uploaded any pics from parties etc that he might be in (but then I always get annoyed if here are any pics of them together, so i probably shouldnt look!)
Yes. Especially if he keeps pictures and letters of her in his bedroom drawer, she played 11 musical instruments and got 10 A*s at GCSE.
But she wasn't that hot. It's all good.
But she wasn't that hot. It's all good.
That'd be awful!
What about downloading the pictures to your computer? Even if it's "to look at when I have time"?
It seems like you're punishing yourself and comparing yourself, not good for you surely?
How would the partner make the one looking at the photos feel more secure?
What about downloading the pictures to your computer? Even if it's "to look at when I have time"?
It seems like you're punishing yourself and comparing yourself, not good for you surely?
How would the partner make the one looking at the photos feel more secure?
Anonymous
Yep, I'm the same.......My boyfriend's ex has a myspace site and I sometimes find myself looking at that even though I don't know her. I guess I just wanna see if she's uploaded any pics from parties etc that he might be in (but then I always get annoyed if here are any pics of them together, so i probably shouldnt look!)
Does your boyfriend know you look at it?
Im wondering why anyone would care about their own ex after they have found a new partner, let alone their other half's partner.
you stalk but you#re not obsessive? wtf!.
fruitcake
i internet stalk her.. its just morbid curiosity... especially as our relationships overlapped for a while. its pretty unhealthy but as long as its not obsessive i think its ok
Does ur bf know? Do u feel weird about it at all?
Guys tend to not do this as much I think... although some do...
Anonymous
Does ur bf know? Do u feel weird about it at all?
Guys tend to not do this as much I think... although some do...
Guys tend to not do this as much I think... although some do...
If a girl wants to date an ex I will give her my ex's number.
Otherwise they can shut up and stop being such a weirdo.
My bf's ex is a minger!!! And now has a kid!
Phonicsdude
If a girl wants to date an ex I will give her my ex's number.
Otherwise they can shut up and stop being such a weirdo.
Otherwise they can shut up and stop being such a weirdo.
lol,what's weird about wanting to know what they looked like. (although stalking is a bit far).
To be honest, I'd be more worried if the ex was really ugly/evil/freaky, they say most boys go for a similar type of girl...., and it would mean they have no taste, which would be awful since they're now going out with me.
Lady_Muck
Paranoid about ex's. God, if you meet them in the street, heck. Horrible! I just want to claw their eyes out...My ex's ex was gorgeous, seriously she was stunning and very, very (Cantab enough) intelligent. I felt so bloody dowdy and stupid next to her!
But just think of it this way...she can't be that amazing compared to you, because he went put with you instead of her. I think that makes you more amazing in his eyes!!!
it is more a girl thing, but none of my gfs have ever specifically asked me to see photos.
Although in the last few years that might be to do with the photos of all my mates on my wall at uni, which include all my exs somewhere coz either them or the others in the pjhoto are still mates
Although in the last few years that might be to do with the photos of all my mates on my wall at uni, which include all my exs somewhere coz either them or the others in the pjhoto are still mates
Related discussions
- My bf went to a party where his ex was
- Relationship stress
- Stereotype men with kids
- Gf broke up with me - should I fly over?
- weird toxic ex bf vent ??
- is it weird to be single
- BF shared TMI with friends?!
- girls have you ever thought a chubby guy is actually attractive?
- I need help. I'm confused and sad and maybe some others advice and opinions can help?
- What would you do
- HELP: I wrote an acknowledgement to my ex, and scared my current bf will dump me
- Bf’s mom not including me in family events
- My boyfriend dumped me over these reasons
- girlfriend trust issues
- Help
- Family don’t like my gf what to do
- Was he cheating on me? I need peace of mind..
- What is the difference between relationship status?
- My bf is really insecure
- Night out
Latest
Trending
Last reply 1 month ago
Mum makes a big deal about me having locked my phoneLast reply 1 month ago
Will they put it on my medical records if I ask for stronger painkillers?Health
8
24
