Confused

I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. But before this relationship i had this really strong friendship with someone else, which i hoped one day would turn into something else. I went to uni and we kinda lost contact, and then i met my bf. We had a party at the end of term and he was there, he came up to me and asked to dance and said he wanted to talk. He talked i listen, turns out he liked me, and thought i didn't like him coz i didn't stay in touch. He kissed me, and i can't say i didn't kiss him back. I don't know what to do, my bf is brilliant and i really like him, but i can't see us having a future, but with my friend i can, i have this really strong connection with him, and i think i may be starting to fall in love with him. But i don't wanna hurt my bf. Really scared and have no idea what to do.........

Reply 1

Fleece

I think you just answered your own question tbh. You've already cheated on your bf at 2 months - get out now before it gets anymore serious, for both your sakes.

Reply 2

willey

I don’t normally post about people cheating cos it pisses me off, but basically give your boyfriend the respect he deserves and break up with him because he deserves someone better than you.

Don’t quite know why that other guy likes you either cos if I was him, I wouldn’t see a future with someone who cheats on their boyfriends.

Reply 3

rosetinted

my bf is brilliant and i really like him

but with my friend i can, i have this really strong connection with him, and i think i may be starting to fall in love with him

Well as Fleece said..question answered. You like your boyfriend but you've gone off with another guy who you think you're falling in love with. Let the boyfriend down gently is all I can say.