Pain-Sex!

How many times after the first is it supposed to be until sex stops being sore? I mean like the same degree of pain as it was the 1st/2nd time.

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Reply 1

Hurt me for the next few times after it as i recall..I felt like my hymen had closed up again :-s

Reply 2

I've never hurt during sex. For as long as I can remember, I've never had a hymen. :confused:

Reply 3

It hurt me loads for the first couple of times, I was lucky my whole hymen broke on the first time, I think. Actually no it always hurts me alittle. It helps if you're not tense and very turned on and wet, then it doesnt hurt. But I'd say the extreme pain went away after 3/4 go's.

Reply 4

Barny

It never stops hurting, did you think sex was supposed to be ENJOYABLE for girls or something???

Reply 5

Anonymous

I've never hurt during sex. For as long as I can remember, I've never had a hymen. :confused:

Me either but i did gymnastics since forever so i guess it broke then?

Reply 6

Chickadee

It stopped hurting about the third time for me which was nice. Although if I dont have sex for a few weeks it still hurts a wee bit again at first. Do you use lube? I <3 it.

Reply 7

totally_unique

yer the first time. but then i didn't have sex for months and it hurt again! now is fine.

Reply 8

Hayley_2k4

it never hurt for me :confused:

Reply 9

Glow

Hayley_2k4

it never hurt for me :confused:

Me neither.. not much at least. Ahh, maybe it was the gymnastics for me as well, never thought about that. :rolleyes:

Reply 10

lovelee-jublee

It depends what you mean by 'hurt'. I still get a dull ache in my groinal area after being in certain positions during sex... maybe he's just too big!!! Hehe :rolleyes:

Reply 11

Lady_Muck

You need to buy some KY, makes it a whole lot different.

Sometimes you will be sore the next day anway, when you get a bit over zealous!

Pleasure=Pain

i had sex for the 1st time last week and it didnt hurt at all i was so surprised as thats the main thing i had been worrying about .. still i am a bit scared about next time though esp as it wont be for at least 2 weeks

Reply 14

Talya

Lady_Muck

You need to buy some KY, makes it a whole lot different.

Lady_Muck

Sometimes you will be sore the next day anway, when you get a bit over zealous!

Reply 15

Lauren Hart

I never hurt at all, but it do get friction sores every now and then if we get "over zealous" as it was put! the key is to be really relaxed and really wet, and use lube if you find you arent, or indeed if he's on the large size - personally glad my bf isnt! Also, my advice is that the more it hurts the less you'll want to do it, the more tense you'll get the more it'll hurt and the cycle just keeps going. You HAVE HAVE HAVE to make sure that doesnt happen, coz sex really is so amazing when you're enjoying it! Try some lube next time. Or, you might just need more foreplay, so many girls arent aroused enough when the guy decides "bored now, want the sex" so spend more time on you, manual stimulation of the vagina can really help to loosen the muscles up before you have sex. And if you arent try a condom, you lose the friction instantly!

Reply 16

Katia

Anonymous

I've never hurt during sex. For as long as I can remember, I've never had a hymen. :confused:

Every girl has a hymen :>.<: And it doesn't 'hurt' EVERYONE either - everyone's different when it comes to sex...

Reply 17

Talya

Katia

Every girl has a hymen :>.<: And it doesn't 'hurt' EVERYONE either - everyone's different when it comes to sex...

It may not have hurt her because it broke during some other activity before she had sex.

Reply 18

hugatree

Okay so I've never had sex but my hymen broke and it didn't actually hurt.. I think the pain just comes from being too small 'cos you're not used to having big objects inserted in your vagina, and a penis is obviously bigger than say a tampon.

I'd suggest you 'make it wider' first (manually or whatever) and get really wet before you start. The pain can also be due to friction but I don't think you can do much about that.