Who's most important? Best Friend or Boyfriend? Watch
If you've been dating someone a long time and your best friend is apart from you, say at uni etc or something, then surely the partner? If you've had a partner for a week, and your best friend is one from childhood, then vice-versa?
Why can't they both just be very important people.
If the situation ever arises where I get simultaneous calls from my gf and my best friend and both desperately need me then maybe I'll tell you.
All this who's more important/who do you love more stuff just annoys me.
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My best friend is great, I adore her friendship, but I think I'd be happier living with my boyfriend and seeing him every day.
though on a case of who i go to when i'm upset depends on a lot - mainly the more people open up to me the more i open up to them. it's a two way thing. If i look at it from an objective perspective... my best friend[s] know the most about my problems by a very long shot. doubt it's intentional. just the way it is.
I would say it does depend - if it is a new relationship, and your best friend is as close to you as a sister, then best friend, but if the relationship is more firmly established then I would say your boyfriend becomes the most important person in your life.
I mean, you're talking about a potential life-partner here, vs a friend.