Confused about relationships...

This may be a long one so please bare with me!

I'm 18, never had a b/f, never been kissed. (EEK!)

Have never really been interested that much in any guys I know - where I live isnt really renound for it's talent. Haha.

Anyway, last summer I fell for a guy from work who then moved away and havent been interested in anyone since. [Was a longer story thab that, the feelings were reciprocated, but it was never going to work, and I was GUTTED)

Was out last night at a black tie do with school, and was dancing with a guy I know who is part of my friendship group. Except I felt that this was slightly more than dancing... We were so close that there was barely room to fit a piece of paper between us.

So... he's a nice guy, but I don't know whether I fancy him. Although when we were dancing he made me lower region 'tingle'[not the right word, but you know what I mean] altho' not sure if that was cos of him or cos it was cose physical contact with a male. And I think I am scared about kissing him or having a relationship with him. Relationships scare me. This is not normal surely, but then the thing I want when I see couples is someone to hold me and cuddle me and be there for me.

ARGH. WHat is the matter with me / what am I going to do?

Ches

Reply 1

Harv616

Well you can either keep being scared and stay like this

Or take a shot at it and go out with a guy and see what happens

Good luck :smile:

Reply 2

beach surf babe

At least you have someone interested in you unlike me.....except for a few people who I'd never go out with...

So I'd bite the bullet and go out with him! :biggrin: