Another post about my ex and I... (sex related question)

we had been togehter 11 months or so having unprotected sex, then she says she's coming off the pill, I didn't have a problem with it cause it was her body etc so we made love using a condom.

We broke up (but still good friends and sleeping tpogether) and another boy has come on the scene showing intrest, and he has said he just wants to 'have a laugh and see what happens' and she has suddenly gone back on the pill.

Is she just doing this so she can **** the other guy?
did she want to stop making love with me?

Reply 1

qexy-loz

10

imnotokay

we had been togehter 11 months or so having unprotected sex, then she says she's coming off the pill
If she was on the pill, then it wasn't unprotected sex...,
I didn't have a problem with it cause it was her body etc so we made love using a condom.

We broke up (but still good friends and sleeping tpogether)
Hmm this seems strange to me.. why did you break up and then continue to sleep together?
and another boy has come on the scene showing intrest, and he has said he just wants to 'have a laugh and see what happens' and she has suddenly gone back on the pill.

Is she just doing this so she can **** the other guy?
did she want to stop making love with me?[/QUOTE]

Hmmmm sorry I really don't GET this post... :confused:

If you broke up, then is there a problem? Please explain.

Reply 2

Daragh

15

imnotokay

we had been togehter 11 months or so having unprotected sex, then she says she's coming off the pill, I didn't have a problem with it cause it was her body etc so we made love using a condom.

We broke up (but still good friends and sleeping tpogether) and another boy has come on the scene showing intrest, and he has said he just wants to 'have a laugh and see what happens' and she has suddenly gone back on the pill.

Is she just doing this so she can **** the other guy?
did she want to stop making love with me?

Whoa!
Christ - stop her, if she has only just met this bloke then she shouldnt be having unprotected sex with him - think of the problems (STIs) rather than your own self centredness if you love her. Sorry if thats harsh - but think about the danger she is in.
Also, stop sleeping with her whilst she is sleeping with him for your own sexual health.

Reply 3

imnotokay

OP

im not saying she will im just wondering! ive asked her not to cause all he wants is to use her!

Reply 4

Daragh

15

imnotokay

im not saying she will im just wondering! ive asked her not to cause all he wants is to use her!

There must be some reason for why she has gone back on the pill, and just be safe if you continue to sleep with her.

ALWAYS USE A CONDOM

Reply 5

rosetinted

2

qexy-loz

If she was on the pill, then it wasn't unprotected sex...

Unprotected sex is defined as: any form of anal, oral or vaginal sexual contact which does not involve the use of a male or female condom or similar barrier. So yes he was right in saying unprotected sex.

As for the OP's questions. First of all if she is sexually active with other people (especially people she doesn't know well) you need to consider if it's a good idea to keep sleeping with her. Even if you continue to use a condom then you are at potential risk for crabs, or STDs (or worse) if that condom should break.

At the end of the day it is her decision to sleep with him or not. However if you two continue to sleep together she has an obligation to tell you if she does have sexual contact with him. You need to know so that you can stay safe.

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