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Help!!

I need advice. I really like this girl at my school, however i think she just likes me as a friend. We get on really well, and my mate says there is chemistry there as her body language gives it away. I'm not so sure tho.
another friend of mine says that she doesn't like me that way, however I was at a party a while back and ended up kissing her (yay).

I'm going out for a friends birthday tomoz and she's gonna be there. My first mate says I should ask her out. What should I do. Risk it or not? If I should ask her out, give me advice on how to do it? I'm nervous and shy!

Reply 1

rosetinted

OK so you like this girl and you've kissed her already. If she didn't behave really weirdly or embarrassed after that then she probably liked it and likes you.

I think this whole 'asking out' thing always gets blown out of proportion. If you're already friendly then it'll be very easy to get to spend time with her, just do it one on one and see if anything develops. You don't have to go "will you go out with me?". How about picking a movie she wants to see, or thinking of something the 2 of you might enjoy doing. Then just say..what do you reckon you and me go see X film this weekend? or similar..

If she is regretting the kiss and isn't into you then she can spot that this will be just the 2 of you and refuse. If she is potentially interested then she'll agree and you can spend some time together.

Reply 2

sim90

well............
it not really risky :biggrin:

its risky not to ask her so jsut ask her 2moro. at least ul find out is she likes u or not!!!!!

sorry if i confused u..... im not really good at giving advise about relationships :biggrin:

Reply 3

bone-machine

yeah..do it in a really unstressful way, 'would you fancy going for a drink?' , bring up a film and ask if shed want to go with you...when guys have asked me like that in the past its easy to say yes and make clear that you like them, or if you say no (if you dont want to go beyond friends) without it being too akward, most importantly its easy to brush to one side and remain mates afterwards

although to me it sounds like you shouldnt worry about it, sounds like she might be interested?

good luck!

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