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well my mate is obsessed with talking about sex, blow jobs, orgams and she thinks that she knows everthing, she tells me how to have sex(well im 13 and so is she) and how to snog a guy because she 'has' done all of them. and shes 13 please tell me how to make her stop because she is annoying
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(Original post by lil-huni-buni)
well my mate is obsessed with talking about sex, blow jobs, orgams and she thinks that she knows everthing, she tells me how to have sex(well im 13 and so is she) and how to snog a guy because she 'has' done all of them. and shes 13 please tell me how to make her stop because she is annoying
Please learn how to use punctuation.

With regards to the problem you are facing - tell her that you dont care, remind her that having sex of any form is illegal until she is 16, and tell her that everyone is different, kisses different ways and enjoys different things, and rather than just experience what she has (if indeed she has) you want to learn for yourself as to what you like and dont like.
But remember, it is likely that she is just lying about her sexploits, it is common amongst teens.

Anyway - when you are old enough to have sex, remember to always be safe and use a condom.
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Good advice ^^ lol

If she has really done all that at 13 I would be very suprised. Sounds to me that she is just showing off.
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tell her if that's true then she's a slapper and you're not interested. otherwise tell her to stop lying and get a grip.
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(Original post by Fleece)
tell her if that's true then she's a slapper and you're not interested. otherwise tell her to stop lying and get a grip.
surely my way is a bit more diplomatic, and less likely to end in a fight in the schoolyard.
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tell her shes a slut and incredibly immature.Now she has nothing to look forward to when shes is actally in love with someone
happy future pregnancy to her
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Ahh yes the bullshi**ing about sex phase usually comes around 13/14/15 years old. Tell your friend you don't care oh and that she's talking out of her arse.

If she has had sex then she's VERY much in the minority for your age. Most people seem to first have sex between the age of 17 and 21. Some do have sex earlier, some wait a bit longer.

At 13 I certainly wasn't interested in having sex and although I'd had the factual info on it I didn't understand the potential exchange of enjoyment, intimacy and power play that can be involved. Just tell her you don't care and to stop lying because it's not in any way 'cool' to have had sex at her age, just immature and stupid.
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surely my way is a bit more diplomatic, and less likely to end in a fight in the schoolyard.
there was a hint of sarcasm in my post but i think my way's more direct tbh.
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(Original post by lil-huni-buni)
well my mate is obsessed with talking about sex, blow jobs, orgams and she thinks that she knows everthing, she tells me how to have sex(well im 13 and so is she) and how to snog a guy because she 'has' done all of them. and shes 13 please tell me how to make her stop because she is annoying
Simply tell her it pisses you off and she should stop.

I'm surprised that someone at 13 would have THAT in depth experience of sex though.
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I would like to know who she has done all this stuff with!!! If it's a 13 year old boy, they are both extremely immature, hoping to appear more mature than everyone else. If it is somebody older, that is just sick. Either way, if what she says IS true, she is acting like a slapper as others have rightly said. Girls at that age should be going round their mates for sleepovers (same sex mates for girly nights might I add!) and experimenting with makeups and perfumes, not blokes (or boys).
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actually she said she has done it when she was 11 yrs old. at the end of primary school disco. with a boy same age. and now her boyfriend is 15 and she says she has done it with him as well that is why she is on the pill now but her mum does not know. and shes fat and ugly so i dont believe her either even tho she is my best mate
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actually she said she has done it when she was 11 yrs old. at the end of primary school disco. with a boy same age. and now her boyfriend is 15 and she says she has done it with him as well that is why she is on the pill now but her mum does not know. and shes fat and ugly so i dont believe her either even tho she is my best mate
You call your best friend fat and ugly? Anyways.. Next time she talks about it say you arent interested or something of that nature. She should get the picture.
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Ask her if she's ever recieved a dirty sanchez. That should shut her up.
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Lol, i don't think she is telling the truth somehow. 11? i don't think so. Like rosetinted said, she is going through that 13 year old phase of "how mature/experienced am I?!" when really, everything she is saying is most likely to be a lie, generated to make her sound "big". I'd just tell her she is annoying you, and there is no need to talk about sex all the time, it actually would be quite nice to talk about normal stuff! I would get annoyed with my mate if all she talked about was sex, let alone if we were 13 and most of it was bull**** anyway!

PS bit harsh to call her "fat and ugly" isn't it? This makes me wonder whether your friend has picked up the way you feel about her, and is saying all this to try to impress you, and make you like her more? Just a thought.
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(Original post by xx hannah xx)
Lol, i don't think she is telling the truth somehow. 11? i don't think so. Like rosetinted said, she is going through that 13 year old phase of "how mature/experienced am I?!" when really, everything she is saying is most likely to be a lie, generated to make her sound "big". I'd just tell her she is annoying you, and there is no need to talk about sex all the time, it actually would be quite nice to talk about normal stuff! I would get annoyed with my mate if all she talked about was sex, let alone if we were 13 and most of it was bull**** anyway!
:ditto: I strongly doubt she's done anything she talks about before. Let alone recieving a dirty sanchez.
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Tell her "shut up chav, get over yourself :rolleyes:"

But seriously, whether she's telling the truth or not, get it into her head that you don't care and you want to talk about things other than sex.
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Give her my number.


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tell her to stop telling you how to do things and say it is annoying you and that you don;t want to talk about things like that.

i talk about sex alot when im out but thats different i am 19 not 13 and its all jokes anyway!! the only way to have a laugh round here to to discuss something really rank or say something really rude!! but thats because they are all idiots who live round here!
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I'm sure there is some sort of saying about those who talk about it the most have done it the least...lol
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Sex? It was probably more like a fumble at 11 years old. She must be making up some parts and exaggerating.
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