What do I do now?

I'll try and make this short -

Basically there's this guy I have a huge crush on - he's in my school but in the year above, so I don't see him very often. I do, however, know him fairly well because he was mates with my sister. We chat sometimes, and he always acknowledges me when I see him in the corridors. Lots of my friends said they thought he liked me as well, but I really don't think he does - so anyway, one of my friends decided to be uber embarrassing yesterday and went up to him when he was working in the library, and was all " Ooh what're you doing? Is that coursework" and being a general nuisance, even though he said he was doing it for my own sake. I was trying to drag him away, saying Come ON let's go, and eventually pulled him away. But seriously, help! I'm sure this guy must know I like him, but what do I do now? That was so embarrassing!

Reply 1

rosetinted

Avoid future embarassment by doing something about your crush. Your friend may be interfering but they are probably doing so because they are fed up with waiting for you to take charge of the situation.

Talk to the guy you like and ask him if he wants to hang out at the weekend or something. You're not asking him out, just asking if he wants to spend some time with you. If he says yes he might be interested. If he says no you can assume he isn't. Spending more time with him 1 on 1 will probably be a pretty quick way to find out if he likes you.

Reply 2

I'm sure he doesn't though, I spoke to him yesterday on MSN to apologise for my friend being so annoying when he was trying to work and he just said 'Lol, don't worry about it' and that was it...our conversations online are so one-sided but when we're at school he's always friendly and smiley :frown:

Reply 3

Cool_Engineer

Anonymous

regarding the one sided msn conv,,, its not always a good judgement: i know some ppl who are very social/outgoing yet on msn they hardly talk and seem so uninterested - and - the other way round: msn is sometimes a good way for shy ppl to talk...

Reply 4

rosetinted

You won't know for sure until you ask. So either ask him to spend some time with you, or get over it. The worst thing is he says no and you move on and find someone else. If you knew 100% nothing was going to happen then you could stop thinking about it.

Reply 5

Tim Street

lol Its so funny the amount of people that fancy others who clearly fancy them back but don't do anything about it.... just go for it!! what have you got to lose?