The Student Room Group
Reply 1
fuglyduckling
HEY lovely TSR people: I'd like some impartial advice on a hypothetical situation :wink:

Girl 1: Boy isn't particularly attracted to her but thinks she's a fun sort of person. They get on really well, but mainly as mates.

Girl 2: Boy loves her personality and finds her attractive but his mates don't like her that much (in either department). Would probably go out as opposed to casual.

Girl 3: Boy likes her (personality AND looks!) and his mates think she's awesome (in both departments). Things is; his mates quite fancy her, too. Boy probably slightly prefers Girl 2, but it would be so slight. This girl is considered to be better-looking than Girl 2 by most ppl. Would probably go out with as opposed to casual.

Girl 4: Boy likes her personality, although doesn't know her so well. No extreme attraction.

Um Girls 1 and 2 definitely like the boy, and 2/3 seem to - although it's hard to tell for sure! :eek:

If you were the boy, what would your plan be in January?

THANKS FOR READING THIS ALL!! :biggrin: Happy xmas!! :smile: :p:


If I was a boy, my plan in January would be to out with the mate that fancies girl 3.
Reply 2
Have a bit of each :wink:








GIRL 2 :cool:
Reply 3
Road Racer
Have a bit of each :wink:


hehe awesome... i wish! that's NOT an option :p: Why no. 2? Thanks for replying! :biggrin:
Reply 4
Because you seem to like her most. What your mates think isnt really a factor :wink:
Reply 5
I agree with RR. Why? because there'd be no jealousy that way and less hassle.
Reply 6
err, who gives a toss what your mates think??
Reply 7
Why include Girl 4 if she doesn't fancy "you" (or "the boy") and the boy doesn't fancy her? :confused:

It's a stupid question. Go for who you like the most. Duhh. Who cares what your mates think - I'm not going to decide against going out with a girl because my friends think she's unattractive and boring. Best way to prove them wrong :biggrin:
Reply 8
deffo 2. Looks isn't everything anyway and if guy is attracted to her then it's better mates won't try it on!
Reply 9
toiletwall
deffo 2. Looks isn't everything anyway and if guy is attracted to her then it's better mates won't try it on!


An important point. :wink:
Reply 10
You pelt stones at them for not wearing burkas
Thanks 4 the advice, guys! I'll, er, pass it on to 'him' :wink:

I think it's still between 2 and 3, tho! Unless anyone else appears on the scene! :smile: Well... wish me luck :smile: Ciao!
Reply 12
I'm in / was in a similar situation to yours - And from experience just forget what everyone else tells you go with your heart, don't miss this chance - Don't start thinking I'll wait and see which one likes me best and stay indecisive for ages as they soon start to drift off finding other people as they think you're not interested.
If you do nothing it'll **** your head up and raise certain 'what ifs' later on in life. :redface:

Good Luck though.


I'd probably go out with girl 2 or 3 though - don't let your mates force you into going out with girl 3 though if you prefer girl 2

PS : The movie Shallow Hal might be worth watching... :wink:
Hey Matt... :wink:

I think if any of them were "right", you wouldn't be asking this question. There's nothing to stop you going for any of them, and the obvious one to go for (as everyone else has said) is Girl 2, but the fact that you're posting on an internet forum about 4 different girls and you can't make your mind up suggests to me that you're kind of enjoying being single.

I'm in a similar situation myself with a few guys at uni, and if I'm honest with myself, I'm enjoying it, but I probably won't end up having a relationship with any of them.

Probably in a couple of months' time another girl will come along and you'll know you want to be with her, and you'll look back and laugh at this, and wonder why you were posting about 4 different girls you didn't fancy enough.

Just my opinion anyway! :smile:
Reply 14
Pick one. Don't 'keep two on the cards' - as they will both notice, and if they have any brain will lose interest.
Girl 1..is a friend and should remain so. Leading her on will only hurt her.

Girl 2..seems like the best option. You like her the most and are attracted to her. All that remains is to find out if she likes you.

Girl 3..is a possibility but you shouldn't go out with someone based on what your friends think. If you genuinely like her a lot and are attracted to her then find out if she likes you too. If you think you should go out with her cos everyone else fancies her and would do then that's a crap reason for dating somebody.

Girl 4..get to know her better.

Whatever you do, don't start stringing people along and don't mislead any of these girls. I do think that you seem to enjoy being in this situation so maybe you're not interested in going out with someone anyway? At the end of the day they are people..not pets. What they think of you is a fairly major factor too.
Reply 16
girl 2. honestly, after the age of about 14 you really ought to stop worrying about who your mates think is the fittest. now, if they were warning you that she was a complete bitch and ought not to be trusted then fair enough. in this instance, however, their opinions are completely irrelevant.
Reply 17
go out with each one of them for amonth
Reply 18
fuglyduckling
HEY lovely TSR people: I'd like some impartial advice on a hypothetical situation :wink:

Girl 1: Boy isn't particularly attracted to her but thinks she's a fun sort of person. They get on really well, but mainly as mates.

Girl 2: Boy loves her personality and finds her attractive but his mates don't like her that much (in either department). Would probably go out as opposed to casual.

Girl 3: Boy likes her (personality AND looks!) and his mates think she's awesome (in both departments). Things is; his mates quite fancy her, too. Boy probably slightly prefers Girl 2, but it would be so slight. This girl is considered to be better-looking than Girl 2 by most ppl. Would probably go out with as opposed to casual.

Girl 4: Boy likes her personality, although doesn't know her so well. No extreme attraction.

Um Girls 1 and 4 definitely like the boy, and 2/3 seem to - although it's hard to tell for sure! :eek:

If you were the boy, what would your plan be in January?

THANKS FOR READING THIS ALL!! :biggrin: Happy xmas!! :smile: :p:


This sounds like a friggin maths/logic question. WHY do people start these retarded threads?... You have wasted 1 minute of my life.

Flipping hell, we don't know these people and how their mind works.