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growing up

this sounds silly but everyone i know has really grown up from when we were at school or from a few months ago!

my best mate has moved away and has a kid and my other mate told me today she has moved out and is 5 months pregnant and ive not seen her in ages!!

everyone seems to be moving on and not needing me much, she asked if i wanan go out but shes pregnant and wouldn't expect her to go to the pub and walk home by herelf etc that would be taking the piss!!

but i haven;t grown up at all, ive only had one long relationship and not much to show for my name,

im not jelous i just wish i could have someone to tell me they love me and to comfort and spend time with me, i know i can go out and meet people but i want it all back like it was months and years ago the gang together and some new additions and everything merrry and happy, but its just to much to ask of people im not expecting them to put there lives on hold for me, i just thing i deserve abit of real love after a terrible year!!

i can see myself at 30 still having stupid dumb relationships and no kids!!
i don;t want that i want to think about settling down in about 2 years i know im only 19 but im not a big career girl, i don;t even have a job!!

has anyone else ever felt like this? is it just a phase? its just their all flying the nest ill be one whose left behind!!

Reply 1

Radiance

Just a phase as I might say
You will get over it soon enough. Hang out when u feel like, dont when you dont want to.
If you feel you should be more outgoing now then go for it girl, the world is your oyester :biggrin:

You dont have to feel jealous or anything right now, you are just 19!! Wait a year or two before breaking into pieces like this.

Reply 2

grow up

hehe i wish i could be as happy as they are if it takes finding a new attitude like what some peopel have said then i will work on my communtication skills ive been depressed since the summer and i am just about seeing me as me again, my year even though it is at the end is looking up with some of the good news i have had over the last few days,

theres a mate i really want to make friends with again but she is spiteful, i feel bad about being horrible about her sleeping with my ex when i was with him!!

everyone makes mistakes don;t they

Reply 3

Lush Law

jesus are you going for a record on how many threads someone can make?!

Reply 4

Radiance

Why does she has a post count of zero?
And where did the message someone else and I posted, go?

Reply 5

dogtanian

red_roadkill

jesus are you going for a record on how many threads someone can make?!

Um... But we don't know who it is.

Unless that was a joke.

:confused:

Reply 6

this is only my second thread as an anonymous user

you will all think i am a muppet if you know who i am!! :redface:

Reply 7

i don;t know if it the fact they have found someone who makes them happy or that they have some thing that is theirs and they can love forever!!

sounds really stupid don't you think? :frown:

Reply 8

Lush Law

dogtanian

Um... But we don't know who it is.

Unless that was a joke.

:confused:

true, but ive only ever come across an anonymous user once, and someone keeps posting anonymously in H&R a lot.

Reply 9

dogtanian

I think it's more that a lot of people are discovering it, not that one person keeps using it.

Reply 10

nope ive only done it once before about not coming on my period!!

i admit that one was me!! only this one ans that one

i will tell you who i am but i am embarsed and will feel silly!!