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meaning behind the actions?

Ok just wondering if there's any meaning behind the following actions?

There's this guy- for a few months I fell out with his mates including him and tried not to speak to him but he always said 'hi how are you?' so then of course I had to respond. Anyway one night he came upto me and was like 'i don't want there to be a grudge between us etc etc can we be friends again...' so yeah we're him and I are friends again now. One day in the dining hall my friend said to me 'why is he staring at you?' So I looked over and waved and he waved back and then he stopped staring. Quite random. Anyway, when he left the dining room I watched him as he walked past the window (sad i know) and saw that he looked at me too and therefore caught me looking.
A few nights later me and some of my mates and his mates were just hanging out in our ahll bar and me and him were just chatting and he mentioned that he'd broken up with his girlfriend. So I said 'Oh im sorry'. And then he was like 'why are you sorry?'. So I said 'Well cos youve split up your gf' and then his reply was quite strange - 'oh right, yeah.' He kept teasigng me over how I said a particular sentence.
Also, whilst we were just talking, one of his friends looked over at one point, and said 'get a room you two!' I was thinking 'huh?' Oh yeah, we played a random game - where he started hitting my leg and so then id try and hit his leg when there was enough time! (Random I know)
There was also one point that night when my friend said he gave me 'a checking me out' look. But yeah anyway, we did kiss later that night when we were all out in town but nothing more. I do think I secretly like him, I just haven't told anyone although I do think one of my friends has guessed!

I guess I'm just wondering whether it's possible from any of this, that he likes me??? What do you make of his reply to the girlfriend comment? and what about when his friend said 'get a room' - we were only talking!????

Reply 1

rockin_rio
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I guess I'm just wondering whether it's possible from any of this, that he likes me???


you know there is, stop being silly & asking :P

Reply 2

subterfuge
you know there is, stop being silly & asking :P

:dito:

Reply 3

subterfuge
you know there is, stop being silly & asking :P


:ditto: :rolleyes:

Hurrah up and get with him already :wink: :p:

Reply 4

subterfuge
you know there is, stop being silly & asking :P

I guess i just really want others opinions cos I do have a tendency to read way to much into things!

Reply 5

rockin_rio
Ok just wondering if there's any meaning behind the following actions?

There's this guy- for a few months I fell out with his mates including him and tried not to speak to him but he always said 'hi how are you?' so then of course I had to respond. Anyway one night he came upto me and was like 'i don't want there to be a grudge between us etc etc can we be friends again...' so yeah we're him and I are friends again now. One day in the dining hall my friend said to me 'why is he staring at you?' So I looked over and waved and he waved back and then he stopped staring. Quite random. Anyway, when he left the dining room I watched him as he walked past the window (sad i know) and saw that he looked at me too and therefore caught me looking.
A few nights later me and some of my mates and his mates were just hanging out in our ahll bar and me and him were just chatting and he mentioned that he'd broken up with his girlfriend. So I said 'Oh im sorry'. And then he was like 'why are you sorry?'. So I said 'Well cos youve split up your gf' and then his reply was quite strange - 'oh right, yeah.' He kept teasigng me over how I said a particular sentence.
Also, whilst we were just talking, one of his friends looked over at one point, and said 'get a room you two!' I was thinking 'huh?' Oh yeah, we played a random game - where he started hitting my leg and so then id try and hit his leg when there was enough time! (Random I know)
There was also one point that night when my friend said he gave me 'a checking me out' look. But yeah anyway, we did kiss later that night when we were all out in town but nothing more. I do think I secretly like him, I just haven't told anyone although I do think one of my friends has guessed!

I guess I'm just wondering whether it's possible from any of this, that he likes me??? What do you make of his reply to the girlfriend comment? and what about when his friend said 'get a room' - we were only talking!????

I think you should find out why he split up with his gf first,
It can say alot about a person that you may not know

Reply 6

He obviously does unless he was drunk when he kissed you.

Reply 7

My mind says "rebound" but my heart says "he likes you"

Find out more about his ex and the way their situation was before you get too involved...

Reply 8

marmitebagel
He obviously does unless he was drunk when he kissed you.


I think he would probably know it happened, either way cos one of his friends was there and saw. But then I thought that he'd perhaps ignore me and avoid me afterwards if he was for example like embarrassed about it, but i did see him around a few days later and he did make a point of saying hi to me and asking how i was....

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