Looking out for a girl

hmmm well did you insist on walking her home or did she ask you to? sounds like she didn't want you to be there at all, and in that case it is a little patronising if you forced the issue.

Reply 3

Icy Ghost

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She may not have found you patronising... maybe she said it half seriously?

Reply 4

sr4470

Poica

Are you sure she wants you with her? If she keeps walking off and is wearing headphones, it kind of looks like she's deliberately ignoring you and you're just following her...

Dont think that was the case, given that I'd spent most of the day with hanging out with her and a few others. She did admit she does kind of drift off when she has her headphones on.

Reply 5

Planxty

she doesn't want u walking her home pal

Reply 6

Patronizing? No.

Stalkerish? Yes.

Reply 7

Poica

Are you sure she wants you with her? If she keeps walking off and is wearing headphones, it kind of looks like she's deliberately ignoring you and you're just following her...

Dont think that was the case, given that I'd spent most of the day with hanging out with her and a few others (the group then split up). She did admit she does kind of drift off when she has her headphones on.

Reply 8

Let me be blunt. If she wanted to talk to you personally and hang out with you she would not listen to her mp3 player and walk away from you. Usually people who desire another's company walk towards the latter, not away.

Reply 9

naelse

well "I can look after myself" kind of suggests that she doesn't want you looking out for her.

Reply 10

LostRiot

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why didn't you talk, thats what usually happens when you walk girls home, its like the ulimate girlfriend finding strategy, the fact that she was walking off ain't half as odd as the fact that she's got headphones on.

Reply 11

Tim Street

Why are you posting as anonymous.

Reply 12

sr4470

KidA

why didn't you talk, thats what usually happens when you walk girls home, its like the ulimate girlfriend finding strategy, the fact that she was walking off ain't half as odd as the fact that she's got headphones on.

She didnt seem to realise she was doing it...

Me: "hey, why you walking off on your own?"

Her: stops, takes her headphones off and says "oh, sorry...."

Reply 13

Tim Kabel

Why are you posting as anonymous.

Shame.

Reply 14

KidA

why didn't you talk, thats what usually happens when you walk girls home, its like the ulimate girlfriend finding strategy, the fact that she was walking off ain't half as odd as the fact that she's got headphones on.

She didnt seem to realise she was doing it....

Me: "hey, why you walking off on your own?"

Her: stops, takes her headphones off and says "oh, sorry...."

Reply 15

Tim Kabel

Why are you posting as anonymous.

Probably the same reason as the starter of the tampon thread.

Reply 16

username30638

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Anonymous

...given that I'd spent most of the day with hanging out with her...

I think that's the root of it.

Reply 17

jeff2233

I think that's the root of it.

hahahaha

Reply 18

SlyPie

hahahaha

Funny...She asked more than once about how I was getting home :confused:

Reply 19