Getting naked in front of your boyf for the 1st time

I'm planning on sleeping with my boyf soon, it'll be my 1st time. Just wondered how things generally go...do people stand in front of eachother and watch eachother get naked, or do people turn the off the lights and fling their clothes off under the covers (lol) etc....

cheers
x

its different for everyone.. u cud take each others clothes off.. i wouldnt worry too much about getting naked.. once its done.. its done.. and its so simple.

The hard part is the insertion and thinking omg this is going to hurt like a b*tch, and what if I get pregnant or a disease?!

omg

you make it sound like there's no fun involved

omg

you make it sound like there's no fun involved

haha...Well the "fun" times that my boyfriend and I have had, he's the one having the fun. And then once he got mad at me because I didn't want to have full intercourse.

I just think it's going to hurt so much...it's rather daunting.

haha...Well the "fun" times that my boyfriend and I have had, he's the one having the fun. And then once he got mad at me because I didn't want to have full intercourse.

I just think it's going to hurt so much...it's rather daunting.

if you don't want to do it, don't. it shouldn't be about keeping him happy.

And then once he got mad at me because I didn't want to have full intercourse..

He got mad at you for that??? 1 word springs to mind then and that is
what a A**hole

caring, and sweet.

Nope i havent spoken to him yet...might do, tho it could be embarrassing!!
I've never been naked in front of anyone and the thought of being completley naked in front of my boyf makes me cringe (i have lumps n bumps lol)..i just imagine it being quite an awkward moment!

cheers guys for your replies
x

You have a strange definiton of caring and sweet, if a guy who gets mad at you because you dont want full sex is considered a caring sweet guy.
Im starting to feel sorry for you

Feel sorry for me? No need for insults...

You really don't know who he is, nor do you know what our relationship has been like.

I would appreciate if people stop judging others based on one post on the internet. You really have no idea who we are, nor who he is at all.

He got mad 3 years into our relationship, and it was once...it's frankly understandable after 3 years. He is the most selfless guy I know, out of all of the boyfriends I've had.

Stop being insulting when you have no idea who I am nor who my boyfriend is.