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Original post by im so academic
Most of them probably involve sex?


Not really.
Reply 41
Original post by Leo*
No thanks, why would you date a glorified prostitute?


I see your point of view - but what if you met her and had no idea she was/is a pornstar and then she told you? But she was a cool, chill girl and you were in love etc.
Reply 42
Original post by dottie28
The question is not about f'cking a pornstar, or a one night stand. I asked if you would DATE one. Want her to be your girlfriend/wife. A relationship.

Why not? Don't you remember you are the one who brings up "Hey, she ****s other guys?"

I ask you again, what does the fact that she has had sex with many guys before have anything to do with her potential to be your partner?
Reply 43
Tori black nuff said
Reply 44
Original post by Ortegas
Why not? Don't you remember you are the one who brings up "Hey, she ****s other guys?"

I ask you again, what does the fact that she has had sex with many guys before have anything to do with her potential to be your partner?


Because a lot of 'normal' guys would not want a girlfriend that has been reamed by 100+ guys, has shown her p*****y to the whole world and gets paid to have sex. It is arguably not a very 'respectable' career or something a guy would feel proud of his girlfriend for achieving.

Each to their own, though. You seem to have partially misunderstood the general question.
Reply 45
Original post by dottie28
I see your point of view - but what if you met her and had no idea she was/is a pornstar and then she told you? But she was a cool, chill girl and you were in love etc.


Well that would be a rather complicated predicament. A part of me would be somewhat embarrased at who might have known before me (I.e. you friends knowing you're dating a pornstar and you not knowing), I'd see it in the same light as not knowing you were dating someone who has been around a lot (so to speak).
Reply 46
Original post by dottie28
Because a lot of 'normal' guys would not want a girlfriend that has been reamed by 100+ guys, has shown her p*****y to the whole world and gets paid to have sex. It is arguably not a very 'respectable' career or something a guy would feel proud of his girlfriend for achieving.

Each to their own, though. You seem to have partially misunderstood the general question.


Exactly, pornstar will probably won't even DATE YOU in the first place if you fall into that category of "normal chump", which is also a reason for many of them to settle down with guys from the same industry or more alpha men with high status, since those are the ones who understand substantially the nature of their job and accept them for who they are.

Another question? Haven't you ever watched porns to satisfy your need? Wtf is respectable? The amount of pain and effort, months of hard-working is already enough to tell you that they are more respectable than those dumb-****s who have no will to find a job and become a burden to society, especially in European countries.
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Reply 47
Original post by Ortegas
Exactly, pornstar will probably won't even DATE YOU in the first place if you fall into that category of "normal chump", which is also a reason for many of them to settle down with guys from the same industry or more alpha men with high status, since those are the ones who understand substantially the nature of their job and accept them for who they are.

Another question? Haven't you ever watched porns to satisfy your need? Wtf is respectable? The amount of pain and effort, months of hard-working is already enough to tell you that they are more respectable than those dumb-****s who have no will to find a job and become a burden to society, especially in European countries.


FYI, I am a girl.
Reply 48
Original post by dottie28
FYI, I am a girl.


So?
Kayden Kross, yes. The rest, no.
Reply 50
My answer is A). Why should someone's job matter if you like them?
Reply 51
Original post by Stefan1991
My answer is A). Why should someone's job matter if you like them?


The nature of the job. I probably wouldn't go out with a hitman, I just wouldn't feel comfortable. Same as how some guys wouldn't feel comfortable going out with a glamourised prostitute.
Reply 52
Probably not no, itd be like driving in a 40th hand car.
Reply 53
no way
Reply 54
Original post by zjs
If she was an intelligent, down-to-earth looking girl and I hadn't realised, I'd be taken aback.


What makes you think there aren't intelligent, down-to-earth looking adult film actresses? This stereotype you've got in your head is outdated.

Original post by zjs

I'd wonder why she kept it a secret though. If she wasn't upfront and honest about it, as a current pornstar, then that would definitely put me off completely. If she was an ex-pornstar then I think it would be dependent on the circumstances; whether she felt she could be monogamous, wouldn't return to it and had a new career etc.


She might not have kept it secret, she might not have seen the need to mention it to you, you don't list off all your previous jobs off your CV to someone just because you've started seeing them.

Sorry, but if you wouldn't go out with someone JUST because they act in adult films, you must be pretty insecure and/or prejudiced.
Reply 55
Original post by Stefan1991
She might not have kept it secret, she might not have seen the need to mention it to you, you don't list off all your previous jobs off your CV to someone just because you've started seeing them.

Sorry, but if you wouldn't go out with someone JUST because they act in adult films, you must be pretty insecure and/or prejudiced.


Bit different though, having sex on camera for money, as jobs go.

Not really, I'd just rather have a monogamous relationship. Someone whose job it is to have sex with others might be doing it solely for the money, but I find it hard to see it as anything other than cheating.
Reply 56
Original post by im so academic
Of course guys would date a pornstar! Every man's repressed dream.


Dating =/= screwing :wink:
If my friends google my girlfriends name as a joke I don't want to see her gash spread all over the page. Once the internet has hold of something, it never lets it go.
Reply 58
Original post by dottie28
Because a lot of 'normal' guys would not want a girlfriend that has been reamed by 100+ guys, has shown her p*****y to the whole world and gets paid to have sex.

Yes, but that's because those guys are too insecure to be comfortable with that.

Original post by dottie28

It is arguably not a very 'respectable' career or something a guy would feel proud of his girlfriend for achieving.

How is it not 'respectable'? :lolwut: If my girlfriend had made it big and become a successful adult film actress, I'd be proud of her.

Just like how I'd expect her to be proud of me if I did the same.
Original post by zjs
There are plenty of attractive girls who aren't ex-pornstars so I'd rather not, no.


This. I'd never date a pornstar :noway:

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